Is it normal for my 13 year old daughter to m********e?

Question

I walked in on her accedently and she is really embaressed. She told told me she hasent been doing it much. Help!

Answer 1

dose she have periods yet ..  if yes then she is experiencing being a woman .. sit with her and tell her all about s*x and masterbation ..  and all .

Answer 2

who cares?  There's plenty of 13 year olds actually engaging in sexual intercourse so you should be happy.

Boys start doing it on a regular basis about the same time.

Big deal.

All you're doing is causing your body to experience a good feeling.

What if you walked in on her and she was taking a bath, and she told you she took them all the time because they made her body feel good.

What's the difference.

Because she's thinking of a natural sexual thought.  

Oh brother.

Answer 3

eeeh bet theres a lot of tension now eh? np you didn't hate on her did you?! tell her it's normal... because it is, REALLY IT IS NORMAL and HEALTHY and it keep her stress away and stuff you know since your asking for help and asking if its normal my answer is

yes it's normal

you should tell her it's ok and make sure she feels comfortable as masturbating...

Answer 4

yea dude its normal

im a guy and i masturbated

but like earlier, cuz you know...guys get more horny

but um yeah its normal dude

just dont talk about it that much to her

trust me

if she feels uncomfortable talking to you about it

dont try to make her talk about it

shes just trying to get pleased

its no big deal

Answer 5

totaly normal im 13 and do it its fun cause u get to make urself feel hot and s**y and ummmm its yummy baby oh yeh turn it up tell her to do it more it keeps her away form guy but to herself ohh yeh

Answer 6

I'm sure you did it to. Knock next time, and for crying out loud Don't tell anyone.

Answer 7

Yes.  

Answer 8

Let her do what she wants....

You'd rather see her playing with herself than being played with by a guy, am I right?

If she says she hasn't been doing it much you'll just have to trust her.

Answer 9

It is not normal.  When she arouses the sexual feelings which are sure to result from doing this, she will be easily lead to do other things, such as sexual intercourse.

Help her to think of more productive things to do.

Answer 10

it is very normal

dont worry and make sure she eats enough

Answer 11

Cant you remember how old you were when you started? Or didnt you do it at all???

Yes it is very normal for a 13 year old to m********e. Doesnt matter if you're a boy or girl. It helps them to explore their body and their sexuality. As long as they do it in private its ok! Better knock next time and respect her privacy too!

Answer 12

Perfectly normal.  Buy her a lock for her door.  She needs her privacy!

Answer 13

its her life and she can and will do it if she wants. its part of human nature. i'm 14 and i've been doing it probably since i was 12 or 13. just be happy she isnt a w***e and sleeping with guys. its better for her to imagine doing it than actually doing it. you should be very proud =]]

knock on her door or something before you walk in.  

Answer 14

It's completely normal.

I was doing it before I was 13.

It's better than her out having s*x, right?

Also, you might want to talk to her and tell her there is nothing to be ashamed of, and that it IS normal. Also, let her know you're not mad and now would be a good time to start talking to her about puberty and the birds and the bees.

EDIT: To the person below me who said that masturbating leads to sexual intercourse, you're wrong. Like I said, I was doing it way before I was 13, and never felt the urge to have s*x.

Answer 15

MOM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Knock next time. I'm sure its normal. Didn't you do it?

Answer 16

it is perfectly normal..

dont embarass her by bringing it up.

Answer 17

Yes.  Please knock first from now on.

Answer 18

It's normal.  

Answer 19

It's very normal.  Knock before you walk into her room from now on.  

Answer 20

things seem to be happenin to people younger and younger and it can be quite scary

have you had the s*x talk with her as now shes experimenting with mastubation she might move on to s*x or touching other poeple.

thers nothing u can do to stop her but make sure shes had the talk and is awear of what can happn

Answer 21

totally normal....let her get to know her body..knock next time..

Answer 22

Yeah she is just curious. It would be better than her having s*x. Just tell her not to be embarassed. And to do it all she wants

Answer 23

Yes it helps relieve stress and limit sexual intercourse by channeling sexual feelings in a safe way. About 90% of teen boys and 50% of teen girls m********e its normal.  

Answer 24

normal

she is a hormone machine

she is in puberty

totally normal

Answer 25

i did at 14, it was just curiosity really. I only did it a few times and actually until now i still don't m********e but maybe once every 6 months or something.

Answer 26

its perfectly normal for a 13yo girl to be masterbating.....like all the other people said it better then her going aroumd and sleeping with people and its WAY safer....and let her have her privacy

Answer 27

A: Yes.  She's 13.  13-year-olds have these weird things called "hormones".

B: Would you ask this if it was a 13-year-old boy that was masturbating?  When has it become so taboo for girls to m********e?  Give me a break.

C: You wouldn't have "walked in" if you had knocked.  Yes, it's YOUR house, and blah, blah, blah, but really, give the kid an ounce of respect.

Answer 28

Of course it's normal!  This is a good time to open up the line of communication about s*x.  Take it and run with it!

Answer 29

yes its normal for babys to even m********e. lol that must have been horrible for her i cant imagine. maybe get her a lock to prevent that from happening or if you dont want her to do it take of her door

Answer 30

whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaatt??

wdh was she doing?

Answer 31

What a perv