Is it normal for my boyfriend to be "uncomfortable"?

Question

Every time when I bring up anything to do with s*x my boyfriend gets so mad and doesn't want to talk about it. After a while, he finally told me that he doesn't like talking about s*x because it makes him feel uncomfortable and that is one thing he is not open to talk about with anyone. He also says that its a turn off when a girl watches p**n and masturbates. I never heard such c**p in my life! Is this weird or normal for a guy??

Answer 1

He's Homosexual face it

Answer 2

Tell him you need to communicate to have a good relationship and find out why he is this way maby a bad experience i would go to a s*x therapist becase masterbating is normal don't let him make u feel bad you only get one life live it up. maby

Answer 3

It's actually pretty normal with people who have had bad experiences with s*x. Just stay supportive and avoid the subject as much as possible. He'll get more comfortable with the subject i'm sure.

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Answer 4

well if he is uncomfortable that probably means he is not used to having a girl friend or he still has his child hood with him

Answer 5

Its not normal and he is definitely g*y

Answer 6

It might not be normal, but I think it might be fine. Consider how he was raised. He probably was raised without ever discussing that topic with his family so any mention of it at all, something as personal as s*x, might make him uncomfortable.

Morals very from person to person on that last bit.  

Answer 7

Weird. Definitely weird. Find a guy you're more compatible with, I don't think he's for you.

Answer 8

IT'S NOT NORMAL!.He's not being totally honest about his true feelings for you.There is nothing wrong talking about s*x with your bf.

Answer 9

My boyfriend is anything but uncomfortable.

He loves it if I talk to him about s*x and loves it when I talk about watching p**n and suggests we watch it together, Lmfao.  

Answer 10

I think that your boyfriend sounds very uptight about s*x...but that is obvious.  Most likely he is the product of parents who taught him that his sexuality was bad or dirty.  If you are interested in continuing your relationship with him you have to try to understand his feelings on this subject and try to accommodate him while easing him into feeling more comfortable with his personal sexuality.  It is unfortunate that he feels this way about his body and its functions.  Now, for the p**n and masturbation issue, this is different with everyone.  If it is not something that turns him on it can either be that he is intimidated by these actions or that he is simply uncomfortable.  I am assuming that you are both younger and this screams of sexual immaturity.  Just take it slow and easy with him.  You should not push him just as I would expect him to not push you into situations you are uncomfortable with.

Answer 11

In my experience i hav never met a guy who doesnt like to talk about it. my bf loves to talk about it but he is afraid that ill think he is just in it for the s*x and he finds it a major turn on when i tell him thati watch p**n. but all guys are different maybe he is just shy about certain things or doesnt hav a lot of experience.

Answer 12

I never met a guy that is not turned by that or that doesn't like to talk about s*x with their girl but I guess he's different.

Answer 13

your boyfriend has many insurcurities about himself or lots of self guilt, find a new boyfriend.  any male who doesn't want to share about masterbating is sick  or ashamed of himself.  too bad i am not close lol.  talking abou s*x is so hot and when you engage in sexual activities you know what she likes and dislikes. umm i like you already lol  

Answer 14

Either he is very religious or was raised by a very strict family in that area.

Maybe he also has had a tramatic sexual experience with someone that makes the subject uncomfortable to him.

All guys are different most aren't shy about it, so your boyfriend is  different but I wouldn't call him abnormal.  

Answer 15

Weird.  It's one thing to want to wait til marriage, another to be asexual about it