Is it normal if a married woman stares at soldiers?

Question

I`m a Caucasian woman, living in S-Korea, married with a Korean. I think our marriage is good, we take care each other, love each other, but nowadays I use to stare the Korean soldiers on the street.Especially the handsome ones. My husband hate this. But I really find them physically attractive. Maybe this has connection with the uniform, or I don`t know. Is this normal, or I have a problem? Or my husband has? What does soldier symbolize to a woman?

Answer 1

I think you are searching for protection. You live in a foreign country, you are a foreigner there, sure you feel yourself a bit unsafe. Maybe your husband is nice, and kind, but not a strong masculine character. So you miss this qualities about him, that`s could be the reason you watching the soldiers, cause they symbolize power, and protection etc these are all masculine qualities. I think you should talk with your husband about this, cause now this is just an innocent thing, but later can be serious.  

Answer 2

Nothing more HOT to a woman then a man trained to kill to protect...  Try firefighters..  

Answer 3

you can look but don't touch

yes it is normal...soldiers are hot

don't look at them in front of your husband

Answer 4

men in uniform are hotter than****!!!  

Answer 5

Women like a man in uniform, it's certainly true for me. I think it's just the masculine power that seems tied up in the uniform. It's a symbol of respect for something greater than yourself and as a friend of mine put it, there's nothing more beautiful than when a person is willing to give up part of their lives to serve the community or their country.  

Answer 6

A soldier symbolizes the same thing to a woman that a cheerleader does for a man.  

Answer 7

A soldier symbolizes protection and honour.

Answer 8

Well most women like a man in uniform and he has a steady income. Don't have to worry about him not ever having a job. There are a lot of s**y men in the military. They are trained to use weapons and you just feel safe with a soldier. I should know I married one. But that is not the reason I married him. I married him because he was a nice guy, sweet, caring, funny and well a lot different then the other guys I had dated in the past.