Is it normal - or is this a sign of dis-respect?

Question

I recently found a video that my husband had made of him and me being intimate. I was however asleep - and would normally not have allowed some of the stuff he was doing. Is this a common thing, or was he being dis-respectfull? He is my husband, and i know he loves me.

Answer 1

I think he was probably just getting some things out that he knew you wouldn't otherwise allow.It is pretty rude...but I guess i would understand if it happened to me.

Answer 2

That's kind of odd. How did you not wake up? Were you drugged?

Answer 3

Invasion of privacy and I would chew his *** out. He could be showing that on the internet or to other people.

It is wrong unless you knew about it directly before hand.

Making a video is between 2 people agreeing together.

I know if my girlfriend caught me doing that she would kick my ***. The only excuse I could think of that is honest to work on his routene but he still should have told you about what he is doing.

Why would you let your husband make love to you while you are sleeping without your permission? Like the lady said, did he show this to you or did you find it by accident?

Answer 4

How can you be intimate and sleeping at the same time? I don't get it?I guess if he makes p**n tapes of you while your sleeping than he's probably selling them on the street too.

  But your right...you know he loves you....

Answer 5

He made love to you while you were asleep? How did it not wake you up!? I think it's a little disrespectful both because he did that without your knowledge and because he taped it without your consent. If it was me, I would be offended that he didn't ask.

Answer 6

Did he drug you first?

That's assault!

Why did he video the assault?

What else does he do, in the videos you haven't seen?

Was anyone else involved?

Any of his friends smile knowingly at you?

Are you, right now, being displayed for all to see on a website somewhere.......?