Is it normal sibling behavior?

Question

sometimes my brother and i are cool

and fake fight but when we really fight its really bad and idk if its normal

hes 2 years older than me and twice my weight.

when we fight he usually chokes me to the point were i cant breathe but not long enough to get dizzy or anything he also spits on me and punches me in the head and stuff.

i bite slap and scratch like most girls but i kick and punch too.ussually it goes way to far (i think) were theres sometimes bleeding and some bruises.i ussually cry too

it happens maybe once or twice a month but other than that were just normal bickering or just nice.

well any help would..help haha thanks

Answer 1

Maybe you should tell your parents.  If that doesn't try telling him he's an a**.  You shouldn't really ever hit a girl period wheather she's your sister or not.  How do these fights get started?  Maybe your brother has anger management issues and needs pills or something.  Hope it stops.

Answer 2

No this is not nor al!! Me and my brother  fight but when he trys to hurt me he hits he with a cricket bat or trys to stab me with a knife. I normal cry and get really upset. I do not fight back because i am responsible and i just try to ignore what he does and try to avoid him which i know is hard.

Hope it helps =]

Answer 3

No that's not normal.  Tell him how your feel.  A boy a a girl shouldn't be physically fighting at all. Brother and sister, or not. Just hope that things get better.  

God bless

Answer 4

Yes, it's normal, but it isnt supposed to be.

Try not to fight so much.

It will get worse as you get older, and you may end up hating each other.

Answer 5

That's not really normal I don't think. My brother would punch me and push me. Sometimes when he punched me I would get bruises but not that often. But he never choked me...I think that's a little excessive. I would scratch as well and leave all these marks on my brother and sometimes blood on my brother. But I think what's happening between you and your brother is a bit more excessive and you should be careful and try not to get out of hand like that. I'm sure it happens in a lot of families though. I don't really fight with my brother anymore, physically at least because we're a bit older now but before we did a lot.

Answer 6

itz not normal.ya might really injure each other and den hav to go to the ER

Answer 7

I think you should tell your parents. It isn't okay to be choked. If he causes physical pain to you you need to talk to someone.

Answer 8

if your brother doesn't know his own strength, try telling him how he hurts you (when you are NOT wrestling around)... let him know that you're just not strong enough and you do get hurt.

if all else fails, talk with your parents... you could get seriously injured.

Answer 9

Yes, it is a normal behavior for sibling to fight. Since you are aware how it upset you...The best time to build a good relationship is when your not fighting. Explain to your brother how you feel when you both fight and then request from him to help think of some ways to solve your difference without physical fighting.

I know it hurts your feelings when everything get out of control. You are mature enough to sit your brother down and have a heart to heart talk with him. Your brother and your parents would be very proud of you especially your parents. Always keep in the mind that the person who declares peace first-is a person that is very bright. God bless.