Is it normal to fantasize about..?

Question

a crush..i ALWAYS do it.. sometimes i think about being with him and others its like kissing him..and it makes me feel really awkward when i see him because i feel like he knows that I'm doing it..i mean i know he doesn't know but i just feel ashamed in a way i guess..is that normal??? and do guys do this too?? is there a way to stop myself from feeling weird when i see him? or stop fantasizing?

Answer 1

It is completely normal for you to be having these thoughts.  It's ok to fantasize, everyone does it.  You do not have to feel ashamed about it, it's natural. We are all sexual beings. Guys think about s*x I believe every 6 seconds (may be even less since the last time I checked) Guys fantasize even more than girls.  I do not feel you need to stop, it's harmless thoughts that everyone gets.  No big deal :)

Answer 2

Its perfectly ok to fantasize about being with boys and lots of other guys, because its not real so nobody is getting hurt. I go to school and sometimes fantasize about being with some guys and sometimes it just makes me a happier person that day. So don't feel guilty about it, it should be fun and make you a lot happier. Try not to be uncomfortable, try this. In your head imagine that this boy/these boys you are fantasizing about, know what you want to do with them, and are flaterd what you are thinking and wouldnt mind if it did happen! A lot of my friends do it to, there is nothing to be ashamed about. The source bellow is a really big help to me and a lot of my friends, to help with teenage stuff e.g boys, your body, puberty.....etc

I hope this helps you!! Thanks for reading  Laura xxxx

Answer 3

Hunny, everybody does it, it's totally normal, don't feel weird at all! and don't try to stop either, it's perfectly healthy to fantasize, it's fun!

Answer 4

i believe this is normal..!!!!

concentrate on ur studies as well..!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

i think it's alright but just don't think about nasty things, i think it's a little overboard if he knows what you're doing. i think it's normal since we all yearn for something that may satisfy us. and yeah, guys do it too, i mean everyone does. it'd be lie if we said we didn't.

Answer 6

Perfectly normal.  Just remember he doesn't know what you think so stop feeling awkward.