Is it normal to feel a little bit jealous of one of your ex friends?

Question

long ago i have a friend that i thought it was my best friend , our relationship got so competitive, she always told me how pretty people told her she was(that's something I'm not going to deny) i never got any complement from her, even till this day i still don't(we talked for the 1st time in 5 years a month ago) the only thing she notice about me was that i don't have acne anymore... we have talk about whats been of our lives she got married to a hindu engineer and shes not working , even though I'm happy with my life i have a wonderful boyfriend and have a government job, i feel a little jealous of her , i think i have work a lot harder for the little things i have and she just comes and marries this guy and gets everything fast , i might be a little silly for this, but there's something that i cant understand regarding her and its why she cant see anything good of me, now shes overweight and i still tell her how pretty she looks, but from her i only get a "I'm glad that you are ok" isn't supposed to friends give complements? and then i don't understand why i feel jealous ?

Answer 1

Shes probably just one of them people that dont do compliments. I wouldnt be jealous if i were you. She probably has no goals in life, no job just relying on her husband. Working might sound a bit annoying, when she gets everything served on a plate, but atleast it will make you a better person. You can go to work, socialise, and look forward to coming home to your boyfriend. She will be at home bored out of her mind. Shes not the nicest person in the world. What your doing builds character, she will be an up-her-own-**** girl all her life now. Dont be jealous shes nothing seriously ;) You concentrate on your life with your boyfriend and any future children you may have, and she can carry on with her hindu engineer and a diet. Dont give her any more compliments, shes milking it ;)  

Answer 2

yes

u want to be like her