Is it normal to feel this way toward your ex gf?

Question

why am i so angry over my ex? heres the short story. i was mean and an *** to her but i apologized for a month straight flowers, etc. you name it i did it to try and get her back and she said no and she said to leave her alone, but now i think about her every day and she said she rather go out partying and get drunk then be with me. and i asked her what would she do if i died she in a nice way said she would still go out and party. i think about these things a lot and say to myself that even if she wanted me back now i wouldn't take her back. she met this other guy and she told me she kissed him and it crushed me.

i get angry when i think about her i mean i dont do anything like break things or try to kill myself but it just ruins my mood and i think of them two together and it pisses me off. maybe its jealousy but idk?

what can i do to get over this? is it normal to feel this way? oh and its only been a month since the break up.

Answer 1

You need to find new hobbies or pick up old ones to keep yourself busy and her off your mind. Hang out with friends and do stuff. Main thing is to keep yourself busy, try to stay away from things that remind you of her, like the IM thing all I can say is you gotta stay headstrong and keep her off your list!!! Let her go is the best advice I can give you, and it will probably be the best thing that ever happened to you, theres a lot of satisfaction or feeling of huge accomplishment when you get over someone that is hard to get over in the first place!! GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 2

Yes, it's normal. Avoid talking to her for now and try to keep yourself busy instead of "stalking" her on aim and stuff.