Is it normal to get bored in a relationship??

Question

I have been with my boyfriend for 2years and we aren't like how we used to be all lovey dovey silly with eachother...I know I love him but I don't know if I love him as a best friend or a lover. What should I do???

Answer 1

that's normal i think. my husband and i stopped the lovey dovey after about a year. lol. i don't think it's really you getting bored as it is getting comfortable and familiar with them. and most likely getting in a rut. try to do something different and exciting every once in a while. like get a babysitter and go out or just stay home and pretend you've just started dating all over again. go out to dinner or a movie. something you don't normally do.  

Answer 2

Yes it is normal to get >a bit< bored, but ask yourself,lately efferts have you made to make things better ?

There are places to go and people to see that can make you feel all lovie dovie again.

Hold hands more often, get some nice DVD films to sit at home and cuddle up and watch, take a walk to a park and have a heart to heart chatt with him.

As an old song goes>>> What have you done for ME lately ?

Answer 3

I've already experiencing this and we're only 4months man.

Maybe we both need time.

Restriction are always the problem.

Answer 4

When he touches you do you get goosebumps or just annoyed?

Answer 5

I agree with Teresa. Definately time to sit down and discuss your relationship. No point in moving forward with mixed feelings. You both need to sit down and decide if things are still going in the direction you both want.

Good Luck!

Daniella

Answer 6

Perfectly normal to get bored.  Especially when you stop having fun together.

Time to sit down and talk and see what and/or whether you need to put more effort into the relationship.

Good luck!

Answer 7

it's normal if you're not suited as whatever attraction you felt has worn off rather than grown, get rid and look around for someone else.