Is it normal to have infatuations of memebers of the same s*x?

Question

I am not L*****n, but I am infatuated with someone that is female and older.

Answer 1

could just be a mentor type relationship if the feelings aren't sexual

Answer 2

it is normal.

i used to go to an all girls christian school, and there's no one left to admire, but another female. i thought i was les, but after that, when i finally met the opposite s*x, i eventually liked a guy.

sometimes, because of malice, we think that we are sexually attracted to the same s*x, but in reality, when you assess it, you are just attracted to her because she's someone you're not.

Answer 3

It's very normal.

I'm a man and I used to and still do admire many other men that are older than me, but I always respect those admirations as father-and-son type relationships.

I suggest you remind yourself that this older female is like an older sister or motherly type person to you, and keep it that way.

You could regret it if you act on anything beyond that.

I hope that helps! =)