Is it normal to sleep with a younger man ? ?

Question

A woman who i work with and am friends with told me she is obsessed with her sons friend, she is a widower in her 40`s and she finds herself attracted to this guy who is " 21, Irish, 6 foot 3 and a pro-swimmer ", ( her words not mine ) im the same age as her son ( also 21 ) and im not sure what to think of the situation,

She got drunk one night and sat on this guys lap whispering sexual stuff to him, he was too drunk to do anything but sit there.

What do you all think of it, should she go for it or what do i tell her ? What can I say to the sons friend ?

Answer 1

My Father was 18 Years older than my Mother and they were very Happy together all their Married Lives ,they are now  many  Years Dead. He died in 1972 and She in 1990. So I see no problem with this Relationship, mind your own Business. Let them enjoy themselves, if it does not work out than so be it. If it does work out and they remain together ever after ,then that's great.

Answer 2

40 yr. old women have urges , too, ya know. Let her work it out for herself. It's really none of your business to decide who should sleep with who because of an age gap.

Answer 3

tell her to go for it you only live once and if he feels the same good luck to them.

Answer 4

Nothing to do with you   Leave them to do what they want    lots of 40'ish ladies have the same   urge and  virility of younger women   so why not if they both enjoy and get satisfaction from it ...   nothing new about toy boys  is there ..    

Answer 5

We have a saying where I come from, "Mind your own business."

Answer 6

Live and let live, they are both adults so whatever.

Who has the right to judge?

Lucinder x

Answer 7

Are you saying that it's wrong for an older woman to have s*x with a younger man? You sound a little prejudice to me. An older woman can give a lot better s*x than a younger woman and every young man should have at least one.

Answer 8

Too much s*x can damage ones health...

Answer 9

Whats with people worrying about age gaps if someone likes someone then good luck to them we are only on this earth once lets enjoy ourselves

Answer 10

Considering it is the sons friend I would definitely say no.  That would be really weird for her son and probably cause problems between the son and his mom and the son and his friend. Such a big age difference does happen and that is the choice of the individual (even though I find it odd), but since it is a friend of the son, I would say that it is a bad idea.

Answer 11

Nothing wrong with it.

Younger man or younger woman, what's the difference?

Answer 12

let her have him, there are ppl out there with far stranger relationships!

Answer 13

I feel as adults that they can do what they like.