Is it normal to still have feelings for an ex?

Question

i am a happily married women and i still sometimes think of my exboyfriend and i still have love for him. we were together for over a year and i just want to know is it normal to feel this way after 3 years of being apart??

Answer 1

It is very normal. When I was married (prior to meeting my bf) I still had feelings for an ex, he actually lived a few houses down, when he told me he was getting married I was mortified, but I was married too, I couldn't just tell him, no, wait, I still have feelings for you. In time, the feelings should subside!

Answer 2

Yeah it happens to a lot of people. Even if you're genuinely over someone, part of you may still may miss them or have fond memories of them.

There's nothing wrong with it at all, as long as you realize that memories are nice but that's all they are. :)

Answer 3

Yes.  It is your first love?  Sometimes I have a dream that is intense and I feels like we're together again.  Then I realize that I've moved on for a reason. ;-)