Is it normal to think almost everyone is mean?

Question

Almost every person i've talked to or encountered, I think they're mean and b****y in some sort of way. I mean, I know they're not, but when they say one little thing wrong it gives me the impression that they're mean, and that's why I like VERY few people in this world. What's it mean and what can I do to change it?

Answer 1

that happens to me alot!

Answer 2

I think that  is a normal reaction to the conditions we are brought up in.  No one likes to be hurt by other people so we tend to make up excuses that will keep us away from forming a relationship with people who might hurt us.  By finding fault in others we justify our aloofness with society.  We make ourselves into the type of independent people that hate to rely on others.  

BUT... Have you ever thought of how one of these 'mean' people are viewing you.  They might be a little on edge because you have already said in your mind that this person is just like everyone else and your giving a vibe that doesn't sit well with them.

The best thing to do to become a more sociable person is to hang with the right kinds of crowds.  Groups you mix well in and share common interests.  Also, just try and look at the same people twice but each time with a different perspective  on their personality.

Anyways, hoped this helped.

Have a good life. : )

Answer 3

yep and yes they are normally

Answer 4

Well there are a ton of mean ppl. You should make an effort to be nice to the ppl u think are only a little mean and see if they eventually seem nicer.

Answer 5

You are just choosing poopy people at the moment.  Wherever you are going every day, who ever you choose to talk to ... just switch it up and do something different so you encounter a different group of people.  Also, make sure you are not the source of the problem.  A grouchy person is not going to attract happy people   :)   Best wishes to you !