Is it ok, for my partner to sometimes get an erection over other women whilst watching TV?

Question

I’ve been with my partner for 4 years and was wondering if it was ok for him to sometimes get an erection over other women whilst watching TV. We have an incredible s*x life and are very open with each other, he says that to him I am the most beautiful woman in the world and that he is satisfied completely, but that it is still perfectly normal to sometimes be aroused when seeing a beautiful woman on television. Should I be ok with it?

He does not watch p**n (actually doesn’t like it all together), is faithful and doesn’t m********e at all (saying that why on earth would he need to since he has me).

I would really appreciate any thoughts on this and thank you all in advance.

Answer 1

Do you think that you're so incredible and wonderful that no other woman on the Earth should be able to arouse him?

Why can't women understand that this is the way that men are?    That they are naturally programmed by nature to be attracted to multiple women, not just locked in on one.     It's not enough for you that he's faithful to you-- he should not ever be aroused by any other woman?

Most men, incidentally, like to watch p**n.    It's exciting to them to see others having sexual activities; that's the way most men are.

Don't expect your partner not to be aroused by any other woman; that isn't normal, and it's totally unrealistic.

Answer 2

What do you want? Getting an erection over a guy? Oh, he doesn't m********e? I have a bridge in London I'd like to sell you!

Answer 3

it´s normal! it happens to me so many times... Understand us we are guys! that´s our nature! lol!

Salutes! :)

Answer 4

He sounds very honest and a great catch. He has no control over his erections. He finds pretty women hot so let him be, but show him what YOU can do for his erection.  

Answer 5

is it ok? i dunno. is it normal, yes. lol

Answer 6

yeah i guess we cant control that feature but as long as it doesnt go too far or he starts at p**n. otherwise thats fine and im glad ur relationship is good :)

Answer 7

guys can't control what they get an erection from. The male p***s does whatever it wants.

Answer 8

It's normal, so don't worry. Sometimes he can't help his bodily reaction to an attractive woman on television, especially if she's scantily dressed. If you're really worried, talk to him about it and see what he says. Hope this helps.

Answer 9

Is it ok for your nipples to get hard from a cold breeze ?  That's about the same amount of control he has over getting an erection (either spontaneously for no reason whatsoever; or from seeing a beautiful woman).  He adores you,  is complimentary, is faithful,  and doesn't tease himself with p**n....geeze, is there anything else you need or want to control?  How about the rate of his heartbeat or breathing rate ? Sheesh, lady, back off and give him some liberty to be human.  Be honest now, have you ever watched a romantic chick flick and suddenly noticed that your panties are moist ? Should you feel guilty about that ?

Answer 10

Men are visual. I wouldn't sweat it personally. Let him know if it bugs you.

Answer 11

ya it is its random erection ever guy has it or he just mite think there hot

Answer 12

It is not ok if you are watching Golden Girls.

Answer 13

Of course... i mean he probably thinks that you are very attractive.. but that still doesnt change the fact that he find other women attractive too... he cant help getting a woody it happens... he just thinks some women are good looking, he doesnt love them lol.

Answer 14

Any guy who claims not to m********e is full of it. He says it because in his mind, it makes you feel special. But, not to worry. It's nothing personal. My habits with masturbating are dictated by my s*x life. The more s*x I have, the more I m********e. Less s*x, less masturbating. You should be worried if he was NOT turned on by other women. That would be creepy and stalkerish. Your man is normal. Relax.

Answer 15

SOunds like a perfectly normal guy. But just for future refrence, even if he did m********e it says nothign about his lack of attraction towards you or his need for you. And I bet he does or sometimes he wishes he could and the same goes for p**n