Is it ok for an older woman to teach young men about love?

Question

Some friends and I were talking about their teenage kids, and how we all wished someone would take young men aside and teach them about what a woman needs and wants. We all had terrible stories about our first lovers, and agreed that most guys are clueless until they're at least 30 or so. We agreed that it would be a good idea and then started talking about who we would want to teach them. To my surprise, they all agreed on me! Two of them then asked if they could bring their teenage boys over for "instruction." I can't decide. Is this a good idea? I'm not married and have no kids of my own. What do you think? Could you include your age in your answer, please?

Answer 1

Will you get paid? Just for love? Will you have actual s*x with them? I am game, contact me.

Answer 2

I think you're going to jail after you sleep with your friends teenage kids, because trust me, if I was 15 and you brought me over to show me how to be a lover, I'd be all up in your stuff...

Answer 3

dont shag your friends kids, they shouldnt meddle in their kids s*x life either, thats fvcked up 34

why dont you just shag someone that knows what theyre doing?

Answer 4

Candy give them advise and show them charts or pictures, but it is too dangerouse to have s*x with them sing as how they are just minors. I think it is a great idea to teach them though!

Answer 5

no gud

Answer 6

Teaching teenage boys how to treat girls with respect and how to avoid common relationship pitfalls is absolutely A-okay. Don't enter the s*x ed part though.

Answer 7

I'd say yes, I'm 61

Answer 8

Candy, nothing is wrong with you teaching what you think is love.  I think you need to keep with the basics as in trust, honesty, respect, love and communication in a relationship.  Most of us learn from seeing what others do and go from there.  Love is a very strong emotion and if not keep in check can ruin your judgment as well.

Answer 9

s*x- no don't do it

give him some pointers on how to be a gentleman- feel free, probably will help the kid.

Answer 10

ok i am 53.and i agree with what u n your friends want to do,but what i fthe guy reallly falls in love with you,,which teenagers r known to do,,he could really get hurt,,or what if u fall in love with one of them is your friends going to hate you...peace

Answer 11

I would of loved it, but I'm 43 now! LOL

Answer 12

yes its a brilliant idea

Answer 13

I am in my 30's.  I don't think you should "teach" them just offer advice.  The whole point of being a teenager is finding these things out, discovering yourself, with someone who they are attracted to, have something in common with... not their mums friend!!

You say you are not married, no kids etc, are you therefore searching for perhaps companionship yourself??  If yes and you try and seek it in a friends teenage son, I can see a huge can of worms!

Seriously, if the lads feel they can talk to you and ask you things then all well and good, but I think you should offer motherly advice and leave it there.

Be interested to know what you decide in the end.