Is it ok for me to be feeling this way?

Question

OK so I've been out of the closet for a while now but never really told anyone that I'm a L*****n. I just sort of let them figure it out on their own or if they tried to set me up with a guy told them where I stood. But I just recently told one of my friends I was and he took it really well making me want to straight out tell the rest of my friends just to see who's worth hanging around with and who would be willing to give me up. Is that right?

Answer 1

personally id stop hanging out with you sorry be too weird for me

Answer 2

It's perfectly fine.

It just takes a while for people to get used to it.

Answer 3

look, your sexual perference is your personal business. if a person likes threesomes for example. its not something that you want everyone to know, its personal. i know that was a lousy example, but if someone asks and you feel comfortable tell them. if they are just baiting you to feel bad about your self, well the heck with them. you are what you are and thats the way God made you. Just stand on your own two feet and love yourself for who you are. you don't have to prove a thing to anyone. a straight person doesn't go around telling everyone they are straight. right?

so live, love, be happy.

Answer 4

i dont think its right that he is trying to change you

you are who you are and thats awesome

Answer 5

let me tell you girl. i knew i was a L*****n when i was young. i had a best friend who ended up being one too. so it was easy for me to live my life. but i never told any of my other friends. i figured if they found out, then ok. i tell you another thing, my ten year reunion came up and they all said they knew i was g*y. and it did not affect how they felt about me. and that i graduated in 1991. these days people are alot more understanding. so you do whatever makes you feel comfortable. dont ever let anyone else tell you how to live your life or how to come out. that is up to you. be strong, you will be fine.

Answer 6

tru that! one of my best friends told me he was g*y a few months ago, but sh*t i alrdy knew it was totally obvious, but no doubt u quickly discover who ur real buddies are, hes still ma boy and i still make jokes about it everyday, but hes all good with it, man he even jokes about himself which is cool

Answer 7

nO they but they just want you to be a girl and do the right thing

Answer 8

When I came out, I told my family & friends. Everyone was accepting, it's a relief... you'll probably feel the same!

Answer 9

I don't think that being homosexual is something you just automatically are, It's a choice.  

If you just set your mind to it, Focus, you can not be.  Your mind is Powerful.

[I know that I'll get like 6 thumbs downs for my honest opinion, this is expected, but trust me. God didn't make you that way, but if that's one of your trials just talk to Him, He will help you.]

Cheers,

-Basscreator

Answer 10

You're beginning to feel comfortable with who you are, that is a great start; but you've got to know that when you do tell people, you run the risk of them judging you.

I mean, telling people that you are g*y because you care about them enough to let them know is one thing; trying to filter out your friends to see who will stick around with you is another.

It's really on your intentions, I know this guy and his best friend. They were friends for six years and he had no clue that he was g*y, when the best friend did found out, he was fine with it, he accepted his friend, I mean it took time, but he remembered who he was.