Is it ok for me to cheat on my fiancée the night before our wedding?

Question

I've been chatting with this woman on-line. She lives across the country but travels frequently on business. She will be right in my area the night before my wedding. She is married and says she wants to give me a real treat the night before my big day. I figure this would be ok, since I'm still not married yet. She tells me she has cheated on her husband several times while she travels on business and says she doesn't think cheating is a big deal if nobody gets hurt. She says s*x is a human need and if her husband is not there to satisfy her, there is no problem with having a quick fling. She also says it would be very exciting and a huge rush to cheat the night before my wedding. But, I'm still not sure if I should do it or not. Although, the temptation is there. She also says she'll be in my area even after we're married and hinted about trying to get me to cheat again, however, I don't think I would want to cheat on my wife after I'm actually married.

Answer 1

no its not ok to cheat also if you do it can back come back and bite you its all up to you make the right choice

Answer 2

Honestly, if it's only a word that is determining whether you will cheat or not, you probably aren't ready for a monogamous relationship.

Good Luck.

Answer 3

dude no its not ok to cheat cause after all shes still your fiancee.

Answer 4

It's perfectly fine m8. Have fun :)

Answer 5

NEVER! This is something you'll either live to regret having done, or worse, your wife finds out and then she will remind of it every time you have an argument, assuming she doesn't leave you when she finds out. Women find things out, man, just leave it be. And if you want to cheat on her already, think twice before marrying her. Years from now, when the new-ness of being married has worn off and you're no longer truly attracted to each other, this will resurface. Just don't marry her at all if you even think of cheating now.

Answer 6

You shouldn't cheat on her.  You will risk being left at the alter alone.

Once a cheat, always a cheat.

Answer 7

I really hope you are joking. Ask yourself this, would you like it if your fiancee cheated on you before you were married. I'm guessing that you really don't care to much about her if you are thinking of cheating on her. Go ahead and save her from the hurt. don't marry her. Believe me if you do it, she will find out one day. And plus you will have to live with the guilt.

Answer 8

You've already cheated. That sucks. How does one plan on cheating discuss it and then look her in the eye and promise her forever? Doomed before the vows are even taken.Wow.

Answer 9

Hopefully, you are joking.

It's not even okay to have s*x with your fiancee before the wedding.

http://is.decenturl.com/5-secret-reasons...

Answer 10

This is an insane question.  Would you want your bride-to-be to sleep with someone else the night before the wedding?   Marriage is a lot more than the word or the piece of paper.  Maybe you're not ready to say "I do".  My prayers are for your fiancee' now.