Is it ok for wife to hit you in face during and argument then involve the kids in the continuing fight?

Question

Wife hits me, makes me the bad guy in front of the kids. Says things in front of the kids to embarrass me in front of them. Accuses me of things she has no basis for. Basically goes through all of anything I have private. I love my kids. She uses them against me. What should I do?

Answer 1

Insist on marriage counseling and if she hits you again, file assault charges on her.

Answer 2

No its not okay.

maybe turn the pages on her and call the cops for domistic fighting.

Answer 3

Get a better wife.

Answer 4

Children learn by example. There is no doupt that she is setting a bad example in front of your children. If it were me I would take her to a private place in the home and give her a warning. If she did it again, I would again take to a private place and slap the c**p out of her.

Answer 5

No, it is not okay. Get counseling or get an attorney, Try calling the police the next time she hits you.

Answer 6

dude call the cop and its not right to get hit in front of ur kids

Answer 7

no...no...no...no....no

Answer 8

Your wife is whack.....next time she hits you in front of the kids....well tell her you owe her one and smack her later when the kids are not around*

Answer 9

its not right. and she should NEVER use the kids in arguments or to use against you EVER.

talk to her again and suggest marriage councellings.

And talk to your kids! they prob hate it when you guys fight and they would never want to be draged into an argument, let alone see there dad get hit!

tell your kids you still love them etc and that your always there for them and that you never mean for them to be dragged into all this. they need someone to talk to.

if nothing improves, divorce might be the best. sorry!