Is it ok i cross dress?

Question

ok i am a 14 year old boy, and i have decided, i want to be a girl. I love girls clothes and they make me feel at home. i love makeup, and shaving my legs, and i want b*****s. i hate my......you know, and i like boys and girls. Is this okay?

Answer 1

no its not okay. serve help.

Answer 2

This is completely normal.i think u should keep doing what ur doing and follow ur instincts!

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Answer 3

Hey, if you feel you should be a girl, and your sure of it, why should anything hinder you.  Get a few more make-overs from your sisters, go out on the town dressed up with your girlfriend, but act like friends with her, because she might feel uncomfortable acting as if she's dating a girl.  I don't know for sure.  Either way, best of luck to you.

Answer 4

I'm not sure an absent dad is why you feel you need to be a girl. Though there are strong indications from your family life that you have a lot of female influence. Because it seems as though your home life is pretty open and solid, I would deffinately discuss your honest and true feelings with your siblings (they might just  be having fun with you and don't know the level of seriousnes you have (unless your just having fun too)). Talk to your mom, don't lie to yourself our your family. They love you and can help you with what it is that you need help in. Trust your feelings, but seek mature advice. It's a very serious and life changing consideration to live the role of the opposite s*x. Tread carefully.  

Answer 5

you might want to talk to a counselor about it. i don't mind if anyone cross dresses but people in general can be extremely cruel to what they don't understand.

Answer 6

if you feel like you want to dress like a girl, then that's how it should be. Don't listen to people who think otherwise. you can do what ever you want. At the same time, it would be helpful to find someone to talk to.  

Answer 7

i think its fine. you have discovered who you want to be ! i respect that. as i said i am the same .. but i like my you know and im not sure i want b*****s .. so what if you like boys ?! thats who you are, and dont listen to what people say ! please help me out with my questions and enjoy the rest of your life !

Answer 8

i am heel_bi_boy forgot my password <3

Answer 9

Of course it's ok dear, crossdressing is part of who you are.

Have you tried talking with your sisters, or at least the one you feel closest to?  She may be the ideal person to help you explore your girly nature, and help introduce this part of you to the other family members.

Take things slowly.  When revealing yourself to others you need to be somewhat like a lawyer, being fairly certain of the response before acting.

As a few others pointed out, it may be helpful for you to talk with a counselor or therapist.  You could talk with them feely and candidly about how you feel, being assured that your meetings with them would be confidential.  If there is a possibility that you are transgendered, this would be a good step to take.

Good luck.

Answer 10

That's cool with me.

If you are serious about transitioning and living your life as a female, then definitely seek a counsellor whom you can talk to face to face, BEFORE you even consider taking any hormones or messing with your body chemistry.

Answer 11

You should find a trusted person to confide in that will not judge you but help you find yourself.  Sometimes a school counselor works good.

Answer 12

See a school counselor or talk to your parents.  This may be cured simply by taking a pill such as Prozac or something stronger that can help you straighten out your sexuality during this time of puberty.  The Hormones really FU%K with your brain!!!

Answer 13

People like you who both cross dress and feel they are the wrong gender are called transsexuals.  Changing your body won't change who you are attracted to.  If you have attractions to both genders then you may be bisexual.  There's nothing wrong with you.  If this is who you are, then it is who you are.  But keep in mind you are going through puberty now, lots going on with the hormones.  This stuff may pass, it may not.  In the meantime just relax.  If you need to talk to someone about it - find a g*y / L*****n center in your area and call them.  They will either have people you can talk to or they will refer you to someone you can talk to safely who isn't going to judge you, think you are a freak, or try to change you.

I was a peer counsellor at my local g*y / L*****n center for many years.  If you want to chat, e-mail me.

Answer 14

I think its fine i am a 14 year old too and i thought i was g*y but i was just curious. So i am decided straight. We all have these kinds of things in our lives and we deal with them differently. i hope you are happy with whatever you decide. And never give up on what you believe and if you like looking like/being like a woman then thats fine. I really like top help people in your situation so i am trying to make a club in my school to help. happy trails.

Answer 15

ok w/ me !!!

Answer 16

It is totally ok! Do what you want and what you love and don't let what other people say hold you back.

I wish you the best of luck!

Answer 17

you can do whatever you want..

you dont need approval from people on the net

:)

Answer 18

Personally, I think its really ok.

I'm only 13 and I want to cross dress already!

Answer 19

I agree with Breakdown. Only you have to live your life so other people's opinions have no bearing on it. You should speak with your doctor and perhaps your parents about your feelings. The more you know about your true self the better you can plan to become your true self. Unfortunately, many people find transgendered upsetting. This is foolish ignorance but can be dangerous. Many transgendered people have had to move to new locations for safety reasons.

Try these sites for more information:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transgender...

http://gayteens.about.com/od/glbtbasicsf...

http://www.teenwire.com/infocus/2007/if-...