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Is it ok if im 20 and i had a baby and im going to college?

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Is it ok if im 20 and i had a baby and im going to college?

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  1. It sure is! You are going to further your education so you, and your child may have a better future. Congratulations on the baby, and furthering your education! Lots of luck!

    P.s- Ignore any negative feedback you may get. I was 19 when I got pregnant, and 20 when I had my Daughter. Being a Young Mom has nothing to do with "WHAT" kind of Parent you will be. Age is only a number! Being a good mom is what counts and that sounds like what you are!!!


  2. Yeah!! GO you!! I'm doing the same thing only I'm working full time too... and I have a husband to take care of (and yes, i mean take care of) Yes, I'm about to go out of my mind.. No, I don't have any free time.... but this is what's best for me and my baby! It's hard but you'll get through it! Pray a lot and spend every moment you can with that baby!!

    I'm 9 by the way..

  3. um...yea

  4. I reckon that is up to interpretation...if your dumping the baby on your parents to raise while your in college for four years, my answer is no. The reason being because you need to take responsibility for the child, he/she didn't just decide to pop into your life right when you chose to go to college..you made that decision. But if your going to be a hardworking mom and help raise the baby/go to college at the same time then you go girl!

  5. Yes. I was 20 when I had my son. I went back to school the day after I got out of the hospital from my c-section. I had my daughter when I was 22 during exam week. I ended up having to go into the hospital the night before and convinced the nurse to wait on putting my IV in because I was trying to finish writing the essay exam the teacher let me take with me. It will be hard at times and there will probably be days when you wish that you could get a little break rather than trying to cram homework into the times that your baby is asleep. But, in the end it will be worth it and you will be able to look back at what you accomplished with pride. Everytime I started to wish that it was over, I look at my children and tell myself that I am doing this so that they will have a better life. Good luck!!!

  6. If you're asking if it is ok, then don't do it.  Such a serious decision is hardly the type to be dealt with by random people on answers.  My my, young whippersnappers these days!.  Seriously, babies can come later.  Get your priorities straight.

  7. Don't tell anyone or they will expel you

  8. Of course! Some colleges may even have a day care like area when you can leave them for classes (usually staffed by early ed. majors, I think, and may cost money). I'm also enrolled in on line courses until I have my baby in Feb. Good Luck!

  9. yes.  as long as someone cares well for the child while you are in class.

  10. Well it could be Im 15 and have a 6 month old baby

  11. yeah girl yeah...why wouldn't it be? i'm a junior in high school with my second kid on the way :) i'm sooo blessed to have them in my life.  

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