Is it ok to ask host if I can bring a guest along??

Question

I was invited to a dinner tomorrow night to a neighbor's house who I know kind of but not too well. They had invited me to dinner when I moved into the neighborhood last year and I see them now and then around the block. I already responded saying yes (invited monday night via email, I responded tue morning) but I want my friend to come along too. Is it ok to ask the host if I can bring him along or do people expect invitees to bring a guest along anyways?

Answer 1

I think the neighbors invited you to a dinner so they can get to know you as a new neighbor.  At this late time, it would be very rude for you to ask if you can bring a friend.  They want to talk and get to know you.  I see no harm in that.  If you feel uncomfortable about that, you wouldn't have accepted their invitation for dinner.  The email did just say you, right?  

Answer 2

I wouldn't since it's at there house so there making the food i'm guessing? This may sound ridiculous, but they might not have been planning for other people, so there might not be enough?

But hey, that's just my opinion.

Answer 3

Well definitly don't just show up with your friend without talking to them.

But, I don't really think you should ask them either. If they wanted you to bring someone, I think they would have invited them when they invited you. Go solo.  

Answer 4

well,1st things 1st, i wanna ask you..why u want to bring a guest to your neighbor's invitation since they only invited you with them?..hey!it's your neighbor..i presume your neighborhood won't do harm for you..and if they do..i know your other neighborhood will help you escape to their house..ok,they are strangers for you but common sense my dear..you already told yes..and therefore you trust them..you agree in the invitation..all you need to do is to be aware and have faith that they won't do harm to you..but if you're really doubtful to your  neighbor..better ask them if you can bring a friend in your dinner with your neighbor..so that they will be prepared..God bless..

Answer 5

Go ahead, I don't think it should be a problem.  Just don't invite a ton of people!

Answer 6

To be frank, I wouldn't, unless it's very informal and you know the hosts well.

Usually, if your host(ess) wanted to include guests on the invitation, he/she would have added "and guest". If that wasn't there, then guests aren't welcome. Showing up with one without informing the host will look very rude, while asking if you can bring one may create awkwardness and discomfort for the host, as he/she is in an uncomfortable situation. Due to monetary constraints especially, they may not wish guests.

However, if the gathering is very informal and you know the hosts well, and you're quite sure they won't be serving filet mignon and caviar, then maybe you could ask casually.

Good luck!

Answer 7

Definently ask them if you can, I wouldnt want to go to a strangers place for dinner alone either

Answer 8

Going alone might help you to get to know the neighbors because you won't be tempted to spend the time with your friend.  If you are going to bring a friend you need to ask first!  The host will need to plan extra place setting and food.  You could even offer to bring something to help with the meal to make up for bringing someone along!  good luck and have a good time.

Answer 9

You have to ask them ... you cant just turn up with someone, that would be very rude...  I dont think they will have a problem with you bringing someone just make sure you ask first- just incase they need to prepare more food or table settings etc..

Answer 10

It would be proper to ask.