Is it ok to feel jealous when your boyfriend gets near his crush?

Question

I've been with this guy for 3 months now. There is someone from the office with whom he had a crush on. Everytime I see them near each other, I get jealous. Sometimes, when I see them both going for coffee or coming in the office at the same time, I get extremely jealous. Is this ok? Please help me out, this thing is driving me nuts.

Answer 1

Of course it is OK to get jealous, as long as you don't act on your jealously. Remember this he chose you, and that is a wonderful thing. If you let your jealousy consume you then eventually that is all you are going to think about and it could ruin your relationship. When you see them together don't let it bother you. Think of something special that the two of you have done together and know that he did it with you and not her. A crush is nothing to be concerned about because it is something we had in school.

Answer 2

Jealous !!!!!

No Id just drop him cause it sounds like

hes messen around with her.

to me any way..I let him go......

Answer 3

listen you want to know how to **** his head up when you see that **** sdmile at him and embrace that **** walk up to him and say something in his ear s**y then walk away and smile at that *****  and speak cuz see you are a threat to her you got what she want but dnt show no sign be as loving as possible then somedays dnt do **** dnt look his way make him think d**n whats on youre mind then when you see him give him a big kiss for nothing that will **** his head up he wont no where you are coming from  but who will have control over this situation you will i promise you will all his love and att........dont worry about her she is afraid of you thats why she hangs around youre man she cant find her own but you be easy and you will win i promise she will lose but if freak out you will lose him cuz he will thnk that youre dramtic and she will be laughning at you so be easy and first remeber you are in control of this he is your man.....................

Answer 4

does he still have a crush on her? bc you stated your bf and his office crush?  3 mos is too early for you to be extremely jealous.  just ask him whats the deal, is he over her or not? and if he says no then you say bye.

Answer 5

yea this is okay.you know that he used to have a thing for her before you 2 got together and whenever you see them you probably think does he still havin feelins for her and why is he by her.its okayy dont worry.just dont overreact

Answer 6

Your jealousy has nothing do with your boyfriend, but rather the fears and insecurities you have.  Once you realize what those are and fully embrace them (it helps to talk to your boyfriend about them so you can both acknowledge them), jealousy will be easier to deal with and may even dissipate.

Answer 7

heck yeah it is.

thats your gut telling you something darling; go along with it.

and talk to him about how much it freaking bugs you.