Is it ok to say sorry to a person whom you have rejected years back?

Question

my friend had rejected some body in her college days and married a rich guy ...but she has spend her whole life with pain and misery...now she wanted to apologise her ex class mate who is happily married and father of three children ...i am advising her to forget him but she is adment to say sorry ...i dont know how to help her.

Answer 1

Yea, it seems nice to say sorry. I don't really know what she's hoping to gain though.

Answer 2

Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future , it's too late and yes i think her behaviour is selfish .

Answer 3

If there is anything wrong on our part,definitely.

Answer 4

yeah it is good as long the intentions are limited to that only and no other ulterior motives

Answer 5

yes it is always right..if she is willing to then let her do it..also that MAN 'll feel good tooo!!

Answer 6

It's never bad to say sorry.  

Answer 7

It's never to late to say sorry, so you should :)

Answer 8

If itll make her feel better than just let her say sorry

Answer 9

i might nt b d rite person to talk abt this topic bt to b frank, she only wants to ask for forgiveness due to d fact tht she isnt happy. if she was happy, she wldnt have turn back to him. true??!!

y dun she jst focus on hw to b happy n jst forget abt d past.

surely by askin forgiveness to tht guy MIGHT stir a mix feelings in him. so dun gt involve in a complex situation.

jst ask her to move on n find her way out to b happy in life.

gd luck to her.  

Answer 10

Yeah if it will make your friend feel better then she should say sorry.

Once she does it. She will feel less burdened and better.

Answer 11

if you feel the rejection is wrong on your side you can say sorry

other wise you can keep quiet