Is it okay for a woman to "forget" her BC pills or poke holes in the c0ndoms if she wants a baby?

Question

If the husband wanted to wait too long. What about a woman who tries to pull the c0ndom off the guy before their action?

Answer 1

no it is not ok.......

you wouldn't want to bring a baby into a relationship where one parent was really not ready for a baby.....

besides that is deceiving your spouse...

look inside your heart for your answer... you don't need us to tell you it is wrong..........

good luck.....

Answer 2

No that is not okay. If the guy doesnt want to have a baby the gurl should not force him. That is really messed up.  

Answer 3

This is very wrong, you would you feel the rest of your life if you were to get pregnant knowing that you deceived your partner, its a constant reminder.

Answer 4

Every human being has its own free wish, but a child is the product of two wishes. Better the matter should be shorted out amicably than to deceive husband. It is well known fact that a woman is complete once she give birth to a child but relation between husband and wife also depend on mutual understanding , to be honest and sacrificing. Mutual compromise is better than disappointment for any one.

Answer 5

No it's absolutely not right. If the woman wants a baby so badly she needs to be with someone who shares that desire. Otherwise she'll end up with a baby without a father. How fair is that to the baby? Same goes for guys. I have a 3 year old son because my ex decided to pull some **** like that. Now I have a child and he's nowhere around. I don't regret my son, he's my world, but I would have liked to be part of the planning if you know what I mean.

Answer 6

no it is not ok....  It is betrayal and the relationship will never work after doing something like that....

Answer 7

If your husband don't want kids don't force it on him that's biggest mistake you can ever make and he will hate you for that,so it's not worth it.

Answer 8

No it is not ok but it probably happens more then we guys think!

Answer 9

h**l no...you crazy

Answer 10

i say if she forgets her birth control than he knew it was coming because he has just as much responsibility in not getting her pregnant by wearing a condom the other ones she is wrong.

Answer 11

no, that's wrong and women should be shot for it.  it's not fair to bring that on someone on purpose who isn't ready...

Answer 12

Nope it's not, it's better to just tell him you want a baby, while it's your body and once your pregnant, it's your choice about having it or not, it is his sperm that will make you that way and he's entitled to decide if he wants to let the critters roam or stay penned up, so it's best to talk to him about it first, after all it's a lifelong thing for both of you once the baby is on it's way into the world. Both of you will have responsibilities once the child is here, so don't 'sandbag' the guy by doing things like that, there are sperm banks if your that intent on having a baby and he's not.

Answer 13

This happens more than women admit, that's why I always keep my condoms hidden, and afterward you should put a little bit of Tabasco sauce in the used condom.  It may sound crazy, but myself and my friends have busted women trying to use the contents of the used condom by doing this.  It sounds "out there", but it happens.  

Answer 14

No,No,No!!

Answer 15

No its not ok cause that is being deceitful.

If the guy doesn't want to have a baby then she shouldn't trap him that way.

Answer 16

no--sounds like a mental health issue in one of the biggest ways ever.  If i was the husband, i'd leave.  

Answer 17

No, that has wrong written all over it!

Answer 18

Why not? It is our bodies. If you want a child, have one. Men have too much control already, they are not going to control my reproductive rights.

Answer 19

Aside from murder and rape, I can't imagine anything worse.

Is it okay for a man to slip a woman pills to knock her unconscious, and while she's out surgically remove eggs from her ovaries, and then have a child produced in vitro and carried by someone else?

Answer 20

You are being selfish in this situation.  Why would you want to bring a child into the world if your husband isn't ready yet, or has said "Not yet"?

Answer 21

I think they should of discussed the topic of children and when they wanted them before they got married so they wouldn't have to worry about that kind of c**p!!

Answer 22

No woman has a right to conspire to get pregnant against the wishes of the man who will be the unwilling father.  This is completly amoral behavior.  If it could be proved that a woman did this then I say that she would not be due any child support from the man and should be made to take care of the child on her own.  Proving this would be more than difficult and could put a shadow on the entire system of child support.  A woman that would consider doing such a thing should not be a mother to any child and is giving womanhood a bad name and a black eye.

Answer 23

Ew no, none of this is okay and the women who do this need to see a doctor!

Answer 24

And just think........this woman wants to pro-create?

geeeeeeesh, talk about the shallow end of the gene pool!

If you are doing this, think of the morals the child would have.