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Is it okay if my gf lives with me in Ramadan? ?

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Recently she moved in with me, so i what i want to know is will my fasting still be accepted if we are living together? We are going to get married soon.

Im sorry for these questions, but i need to know this so when i fast, and i dont know many Muslims where i live.

Thanks in advance.

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Ohh No its very Big sin to live with her with out Nikkah so ur all deeds will bcome sinful

its good that u will marry with her but without nikkah to live is Sin
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Salam for you my dear Zak. Are you a real muslim ? If you are a true muslim you must avoid living together with your gf because Allah does not allow muslims to make approach to adultery. You will have sin because be both in the same room,the third will be syaitan.

You must as soon as possible get married and then you can live together as husband and wife.

Your fasting during ramadan will be okay as long as you did not do bad things which can make your fasting invalid such as kissing with lust,masturbation etc or decrease its rewards. by insulting,cheating others,lying etc.
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sorry bro , You can't live with her....
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its not about sleeping together only..

even a look in a certain way to her can ruin your fasting..

if you have nothing to do about she living with you, try not to contact with her physically, if she is sleeping, try to stay in another room.. you know what i mean??

and may God accept it and forgive you
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There's NO GF or BF in Islam.......
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No, first of all it is haram to have a girlfriend in islam that is if you are a muslim you can't have a girlfriend or boyfriend for girls because that is what allah said.

Ok after you addition I can tell you as long as you call her a girlfriend and you live with her under the same shelter even if you did not sleep with her will be haram but i cannot say that your fasting will not be accepted because I don't know but I think your fasting won't.

Good Luck
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we must observe haya' or modesty. Boys and girls should not chat with each other just for socialization or passing time. It is haram (unlawful) for a non-mahram Muslim male and female to indulge in long conversations with each other unless it is necessary for education or for business. All conversation must be decent. The Qur'an reminds us again and again that all our words are recorded and we shall be held accountable for our words as well as our deeds on the Day of Judgment. (See Al-Ahzab 33:70; Qaf 50:18)

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You are not supposed to have a girlfriend, let alone live with her. make your relationship hala and marry her as soon as possible and don't live with her until you are married. that is my advice to you. You should already know what I am telling you though.
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Your fasting won't be accepted at all probably, as it is Haraam for Muslims to date and be around the opposite s*x, outside of marriage relations and blood realitives. If you think you can't afford to stay a virgin, then marry her ASAP as long as she's a good Muslimah(people of the book doesn't apply today) or fast until you are able to get married.
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i dont believe so..marry her and i guess everything will be fine..:)
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It is not OK even out of Ramadan.

Your question is like asking, is it OK to murder in Ramadan, while murder is prohibited even out of Ramdan.
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As a Muslim, it already haram for you to have a girlfriend. Let alone live with one.
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ya ya it is normal there is nothing happening between u and in my opinion there is bf and gf in islam !!
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Since she is already living with you, what is your question? Are you planning to kick her out for a month?
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dont think so, but ask a mullah or imam.

that itself is a haram act, u know?
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Well if you are a good muslim you would know that having a na mahram living with you is not allowed. Calling her your girlfriend doesnt make a diffrence.
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No! Unless ur married u cant live with her!
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key word : GIRLFRIEND

your intention of marrying her soon does not justify you living together if you are not married, that is, living together as husband and wife [she dies not wear hijab and etc.]
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