Is it okay that I dislike most people?

Question

I'm 15 and I've noticed that I honestly hate people.

I say this in the Meaning that whenver I'm around people I just rather be somewhere else. Talking to people annoys me because I can never think of anything to say, and honestly the whole Reason I can never think of anything to say is because I don't want to be talking in the FIRST place.

I really Dislike most people and really only care to do my OWN thing Whenever I skateboard, play music, Go to Movies whatever It seems that doing stuff with other people just makes me have a Bad time

am I just being too negative about things or is it okay to just hate most people like I do?

Answer 1

That is very unhealthy attitude because you're starting to become aloof. It is ok to be cautious at strangers sometimes but don't overdo it to a point wherein you're starting to behave like a lonesome hermit. Later on you will suffer great loneliness & develop psychological illness. All of us need other people to help us survive, as the saying goes "NO MAN IS AN ISLAND" and that is indeed true no matter how individualistic we are. Yes you're being too negative about things. There is a moment in our lives wherein we get to be annoyed at a person even at a first glance but we should not let it overtake our socializing skills. Sooner or later, you may realize that you're missing out a lot of things because of your pessimistic attitude.

The first thing you do is to put yourself on other people's shoes.

Answer 2

it's your age, loads of 15 year olds go through this phase, it doesn't last forever, it's a part of growing up but at the time you just don't want to be bothered with anyone. By the time your 17 things will be brighter, you'll feel more sociable naturally and you'll have new friends once you've left school.

Answer 3

Although being honest is a good thing, in this case I would recommend you keep this one under your hat at job interviews at least!

Answer 4

If you are angry because people are obstructing your goals that is natural.  If you dislike who they are as human beings that may not be helpful to you.  How I view other people can also be a reflection of how I see myself.  So if I was very judgemental and critical of other peoples mistakes and expect them not to make mistakes, then that is probably how I view myself also.

A healthy attitude might be to dislike their behaviour, but not them as people.  

Answer 5

what goes around comes around!!!!

Answer 6

To think and feel it to yourself is your prerogative; to pronounce it to the streets aloud is generally considered antisocial.  Makes things harder for you in the long run if you're that open about it.

Also, there's nothing wrong with being a loner - and not everyone is a loner because they can't stand other people.  Some just like the quiet, or whatever other reason they have to explain it.

Answer 7

The answer is..

You are 15 - that's a normal feeling!

Answer 8

Seriously?....you know you're not the only person in the world??. Get over yourself and try a little harder, you know a lot of people have some interesting things to say.

Answer 9

This is not healthy -honestly. Distancing yourself from alot of people can ruin you. Get rid of the negative thinking of people in which I think youre having. The reason many people 'hate' others alot is something to do with the fact that they might think others hate them too.

Spend time getting to know people and not be judgemental. Youll be alright.