Is it okay to be doing these things if i am comfortable with it?

Question

im 16 and my bf just turned 19 we have been dating for a year and 5 months. we havent had s*x and we have already discussed that we are waiting for marriage. we do give eachother hand jobs pretty often and that totally satisfies both of us and it seems to make us feel closer. is it bad for me to be doing this kind of thing?

Answer 1

Well.. I mean 16 is young..

But you're going to do what you feel like doing, regardless of what anyone says.

If you feel comfortable with doing it.. Then go for it?

Answer 2

No, it's not bad. In fact, that sort of thing seems to be common with young couples. As long as your comfortable with it as you said you are, there's no problem.

Answer 3

No. If you have been dating for that long and nothing has happened, I think that is perfectly fine. Keep it up, it will bring you closer. Honestly, how many other couples ur age can say they have dated some one that longband haven't had s*x? Don't feel guilty, be proud of yourself and him!

Answer 4

That is awesome that you guys are waiting, you don't see that much nowadays.... but as long as you are both comfortable with it, there's nothing wrong...you actually have the best of both worlds right now, you don't have to worry about getting pregnant, and you're still keeping eachother satisfied!