Is it okay to feel left out..but then happy?

Question

my sister got addopted not to long ago..and my birthday just past,my brother took my sister to the a's game and didn't say a word to me! not inviting me or anything! he never called me on my birthday or ever gave me a gift...how should i feel?? happy? or sad??

Answer 1

I think that your brother did the right thing .Everything you need in life is there in abundance .There is no need to be possessive or selfish .After all you have an adopted sister and your brother thought -well she needs to be cared .

Answer 2

You should feel sad because he could've said happy birthday, its the thought that counts.  

Answer 3

Okay so your sister is no longer in your family? Or she just got adopted into your family? Her new parents are your parents?

Of course you should'nt be happy, but your sister needs lots of attention right now.. and is just getting into the situation..

You maybe should ask to tag along next time..

Whats the age diffrence between all of you?

Answer 4

well i mean your sister got adopted. i think that your brother is just trying to make her feel comfortable. Wait a couple of months.

Answer 5

I'm confused. Did your family adopt your sister recently, or did another family adopt her? Or are you all waiting to be adopted? That's confusing. I'd say you're free to feel however you want to feel. Other people shouldn't be telling you how to feel. You should feel how you feel. Then talk to your brother about it so he knows how you feel and doesn't forget you again.