Is it okay to get drunk with a guy who has a GF?

Question

His girl friend knew about us getting drunk together. (GF is long-distance) However, when I asked to stay the night on the couch, he said his gf wouldn't approve. But apparently his gf approves of us getting trashed?? This guy is confusing me so much. He cooks for me, we study together..we hang out all the time. He tells me his whole relationship history. He calls me his best friend. What is going on here? I know I would hate it if my boyfriend called another girl his best friend. What should I do?

I know I've posted this question before..it's just I'm so confused and don't know what to do. Please help.

Answer 1

Well I think he's playing with your emotions. Maybe he doesn't even have a girlfriend you know and hes just playing you

Answer 2

why would you see him..go out with another guy..

Answer 3

Well drinking and sleeping on his couch is kinda different.  

Answer 4

That is NOT a good idea. Drinking leads to careless judgement, no matter what the situation or whether or not he has a girlfriend. Then, careless judgement more often than not, leads to s*x. Then, after that, you'll be in a world of trouble.

Think about it.

Jellie

Answer 5

as long as nothing else happends its ok

Answer 6

It seems to me that he's being perfectly honest with you. You guys are just friends, and he drew the line for you when he told you that you couldn't spend the night.

Answer 7

Not good any way you toss the dice. If you end of with him, you'll end up having issues being able to trust him. Distance yourself from him. He is causing a great deal of tension in his other relationship and probably isn't making you feel good about your role in the situation.

Answer 8

be care she might get the wrong idea.just be friendly  

Answer 9

What's going on is he wants s*x and if you provide, it's his gain and your loss.

Answer 10

Get away from him! Definitley don't get drunk with him. You never know what happens when your drunk, you could figure out your pregnant and not know how.

Answer 11

Since u are questioning your feelings and relationship its best u stay away from this guy.

NO BUTS

u are unsure of your, his, and his girlfriends intentions so best stay safe than sorry

Answer 12

my best friends are guys and i have a boyfriend. i do whatever but it has hurt my relationship before. if she gives him limits thats because she trusts that he wil follow the rules. unlike my boyfriend. they like each other alot girl. but remember long relationships don;t always work. =) so give it time and don't get too attashed

Answer 13

I'm sorry i cant help you but here's something yes if you guys are close like that and never do you know what with each other then its fine!!

Answer 14

Ok well I think that hes just confused about hanging with you cuz of his gf. Maybe he thinks if you hang out than he might like fall for you. I guess its ok to get drunk, but maybe to him, sleeping on his couch is like cheating on his gf. Just don't worry about it. It will be ok!  

Answer 15

how about you back the fck off and find other people to hang out with.

seriously--i would be pissed to if i was that gf! know your limits and know when to call it a show and not take things far!

And a couch??think about what goes down on a couch..

--wat are your intentions?????? just drunk buddies??