Is it okay to get trashed with a guy who has a long-distance girlfriend?

Question

His girl friend knew about us getting drunk together. However, when I asked to stay the night on the couch, he said his gf wouldn't approve. But apparently his gf approves of us getting trashed?? This guy is confusing me so much. He cooks for me, we study together..we hang out all the time. He tells me his whole relationship history. He calls me his best friend. What is going on here? I know I would hate it if my boyfriend called another girl his best friend. What should I do?

I know I've posted this question before..it's just I'm so confused and don't know what to do.

Answer 1

No.

My boyfriend is long distance and I'd hate it if he was doing this.

In fact, I think you should tell his girlfriend about what he's doing.

Answer 2

It sounds like you have feelings for him.  I don't see anything wrong with having friends of the opposite s*x when you are in a relationship, but sleeping on the couch is a bit much.  You should respect their relationship.

Answer 3

well its ok to be friends with a girl.. but like having a girl stay the night or something then that's going a little further then it should go. i mean it would be wrong of her to tell him who he can be friends with. but that would make any girl made if they had a boyfriend that let girls spend the night at there place. that's a gf privileges.