Is it okay to hate the person your with, knowing that hey have had a past sexual relationship with their ex?

Question

okay cus look my boyfriend gets hurt when he thinks about when i used to have s*x with my ex boyfriend and when he does think about it he tells me that he hates me. is it okay for him to hate me just because i had a past sexual relationship with my ex?

Answer 1

NO.  This is in the past and he's acting like a bully.  If I were you, I would definitely get rid of him.  Hates you?  Tell him to take a hike!

Answer 2

There is not reason for him to hate you.

It is only human for a person to have s*x

Answer 3

It's understandable for him to feel jealous and threatened but not to hate you. That's just totally uncalled for. You need to reassure him that he's the guy you want, not your ex and what happened in the past is in the past...it doesn't matter anymore.

If that doesn't work, you need to let him go because you don't deserve somebody telling you that they hate you. Other guys will be more than happy to go out with and won't treat you badly.

Best of luck :)

Answer 4

Its only natural for any single person to get jealous, but it is not okay for him to hate you just because you had s*x with your ex. Tell him that he needs to accept you for who you are now and that if he can't accept it then he should leave.

Answer 5

To answer you're question directly .. NO. He has the rights to be upset knowing you had sexual intercourse with someone else in the past but he also has to think that you guys DID not know each other. He has to get over it and forget about the past and think about what's going on right now. Don't let the past hurt you guys now, it happend and theres nothing he or you can do but to move on. you can't take something like that back.. he needs to stop crying because nobody feels bad for him. move on and that's something called LIFE.