Is it okay to...??

Question

ask him to go out? we are sort of friends.. and we have gone out before.. and it ended badly twice.. we are in a mellow friend ish phase now.. and i just really want to talk to him. but im kind of afraid to. so.. do you think itd be okay to text him or something asking if he wants to go out to dinner or something? i dont know.. im confused..

thanks

Answer 1

i vote yes:)

you said you `ve dated him twice before though , && it ended badly but . . . i don `t know. i say try it one more time.

so yes ask him to dinner:)

Answer 2

yeah its fine..

as long as you dont show him that you like him alot, cuz guys tend to take advantage of that .. so just be calm when you go out.. have fun with it and dont show any type of love dovey emotions unless he does first.. its more than enough that you asked him out =]

hope  i could help

Answer 3

you should if you want to and it sounds like you want to. but i think since it ended badly twice you should stay just friends. :D  

Answer 4

maybe start with something less intimidating than dinner.. if you hang out with a group of friends first or go out for ice cream or something it might be easier, but def. let him know how you feel

Answer 5

text him and subtly let him know how you feel just flirt over text for a while and you will soon find out

Answer 6

How do you feel about him? How does he feel about you? If you are two friends going out you will remain friends unless you talk to him about how ya feeling for him. Make it clear that you are just friends going out and nothing else.

Answer 7

I would wait for him to do it...but idk im pretty old fashioned about that.

maybe you could drop him hints or flirt a little...maybe he'll get the picture.

If you absolutly have to ask him though I certainly would not suggest a text message,you should call him instead =)

Answer 8

dnt ask him out

if it ended badly twice

the third will b the same

and u guys arent really tht good of frends right now

Answer 9

in my opinion, its never right for a girl to ask a boy out. plus don't you think if he really wanted to go out he would ask you first? I'm not trying to be rude, but i would give it time. just talk, but not obsessively. it would get better, then again it's nice to see what other options are out there.

Good luck!

Answer 10

Maybe you could ask him out to a more informal date and just discuss the whole situation and express your true feelings and both of you decide on how to proceed, try that.

Answer 11

go for it y not?

Answer 12

Sure.  It couldn't hurt.

Answer 13

it is ok ,sometimes it is good that we invite them to go out because they are shy lol don't worry is ok  

Answer 14

No!!! NEVER do the make-up-break-up thing!! It will seem good then you'll only get hurt more! Move on girlie! Good luck :D

Answer 15

aw man, im in the same situation only reversed. me and my girl broke up, but we are friends now. and i still really like her, but i dont think she will take me back.

but yeah go ahead and ask him, i dont know what to do in my situation though.

:(