Recently, I've been working two jobs. Schedule looks like this. Morning shift (6:00am to 3:00pm) then night shift (4:00pm to 10:00pm), Monday Tuesday and Friday. Wednesday and Thursday I only work morning shift and weekends I work mid day Saturday and night shift Sunday.
Reason I bring this up is that my relationship with my GF is becoming strained. Time is shrinking little by little, but the problem is that I'm working to be able to afford the apartment. So yesterday, I called in sick to my night shift so I could spend some time with my GF. I had just gotten off of work and was hungry, wanted to go to a buffet I enjoyed, but she wasn't hungry. So she got angry about me wasting the money. Went to the mall, got her a set of earrings so she could gauge, later returned them that night, too expensive.
When I'm willing to do something, like get her what she wants, she seems to find that hole in it and then makes me feel as if, what ever I do, I seem to do it wrong. I felt so crappy over it that I felt maybe I've been naive and that really the relationship is on its last leg. I also felt bad enough to believe if it did, I once again would find myself alone.
So, I would like to know if the relationship is circling the drain, or is she just so concerned about money, that even little gifts are too much right now?
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