Is it possible 2 b beautiful but nobody wants 2 talk 2 u??? easy 10 points!!! need tips 2 make me more socia?

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Answer 1

YES it is possible!    I am  testimonial

One of my bosses told me many years ago that I had to get over the fact that'' I could walk into a room and over 1/2  the people were going to like me and over 1/2 were going to hate me, Because I was smart and beautiful.''  I thought that was so unfair... they didn't even know me... But from this I learned and took back my power.

Many times people are intimidated by a woman's or young woman's beauty.  They are afraid to approach you for fear of rejection.  Or they assume you are so beautiful, you must be stuck-up.

< The man I am actually married to told me, '' when he first saw me he used to do nothing but watch me. He was afraid to speak with me because he thought I was too beautiful to be interested in him. I  was the person who started talking with him first.>

If you are or are not stuck-up , practice these tips with sincerity and you will have a chance at making new friends.

,(if you are stuck on yourself,  you need to get over yourself and pay more attention to other people).  

Remember people gravitate to other people who make them feel comfortable and good about themselves.

Focus on the other people you want to speak or be friends with and not so much on ''they're not talking to you.''

-Places to meet people

Schools, churches,museums, libraries,parks, group mixers ,dances sports events, lake, beach, community gatherings.

- Become a volunteer at some event or charity

Now that your in a place to meet nice people try the following.

- Next time you meet someone find something nice to say about them.

they have beautiful eyes < that worked on my husband)  or hair, hands, dress, shirt, shoes, wonderful personality,  great smile....

There is always something nice to say about someone.

- If they have a book on them, ask what it is, what do they like best about it? what do they like the least about?

- Ask them questions about themselves,

what do they like to do?

what music/shows/books do they like?

what did they do over the weekend?

where do they live / say something nice about the neighborhood( don't know anything 'bout the neighborhood?)... ''oh I'm not sure where that is , tell me about it, what do you like best about it?.. what do you like least?

How long have they been playin the piano or writing or singing. the list goes on.

Remeber no matter how tempting to talk about yourself or whine, -don't.

Of course there has to be some natural exchange of back and forth in conversation, you don't want it to come off as 20 questions.

But keep the focous, warmth and sincerity on them.

When it's appropriate ask them if they want to join you for lunch, coffee, movie, play-  come to your house to hang out.. the list goes on

Last but not least be sincere and genuine, it will show.

After all you do like to hang out with people who are honest with you and make you feel good about yourself? <so do they>

You have the power to change your life if your willing to put in the effort

Answer 2

just talk to ppl.  and i cant see ur picture..

Answer 3

Be yourself and go up and talk to ppl. It's all apart of making new friends and keeping them.  

Answer 4

I am sure you're a beatiful girl but that has very little to do with people wanting to talk to you. You have to seem approachable. Try smiling more... talk to others and be down to Earth. Remember people like others who make them feel good about themselves. No one wants to hear all about you... be a good listener and go with the flow without lowering your morals or standards.  

Answer 5

it definitely possible just because your beautiful doesn't mean everyone loves you! being more social is easy start with talking with some new people everyday then in some way or another make yourself more out going dance like no one is looking have fun with wat  you have in life and always remember never try to hard just let it flow!  

Answer 6

no ms.conceited it is NOT possible.unless you are a stuckup pretty girl who has her nose too far up her butt to even see potential friends(this shouldnt offend you if you are not this way) or just bring out a more positive, fun, reliable person.people like fun people.

Answer 7

I know im beautiful, but i dont have too many friends

I know what your feeling

Answer 8

no

Answer 9

I doubt people are not talking to you because you are "too beautiful."  That is a very pompous thing to say.  It is most likely your perceived attitude, if you want to make friends just smile more and make small talk.