Is it possible for a 14 year old boy (who has started puberty) to not think about s*x AT ALL?

Question

my boyfriend is not sexual at all

he thinks making out is gross

is he maybe secretly really sexual

Answer 1

What is so abnormal about that? It is good that s*x isn't on his mind. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a 14 year old boy not wanting s*x. I think that is great.

Answer 2

Yes it is, just as it is possible for a boy who hasn't started puberty to think about s*x. If your boy friend is good to you and is a good find then you've got yourself a winner.

Answer 3

If he thinks making out is  gross, then why isn't having a g/f gross? There's nothing wrong with that though, some boys develop later than others.   He could be extremely nervous though. I remember my first few boyfriends at 14 and 15- I was so nervous about making out and doing something stupid or wrong.  I was happier not making out at all because of this

Answer 4

my son is 14 and doesn't think about s*x yet.... thank - God

Answer 5

It could be a few things.

1. You may just be his cover

2. He may have been taught physical contact before marriage or adulthood is bad

OR. Something may have happened to him as a child.

You don't need to be having s*x, but making out is fine.

Answer 6

first at 14 you need to start focusing on something other then s*x.  Second. If your boyfriend isn't expressing interest he may just not be ready.  I wouldn't put pressure on him.  I personally agree if he isn't then I think it is great as well.  Children these days become way to sexual active at way to young of an age.

Answer 7

give him time, I blossomed into a man in my late 30's

Answer 8

if theres hair on the muff there old enough

Answer 9

Well, some boys still might be insecure about their sexuality and they might not feel like they're ready for s*x, so as a result, they don't fantasize

Answer 10

Boys tend to develope a little later then girls... He may just not be there yet. But thats okay... at 14 he shouldn't be.