Is it possible for a man to stay in love with his wife?

Question

I'm on my second marriage, and i want to know is it possible for a man to stay in love with his wife? maybe it's me but i find men seem to romance and sweep you off your feet but as soon as your married they kind of just use you to be the cook cleaner s*x slave and that's it. I wish my hubby could still treat me like his friend, the way he used to.For eg: when his mates come over no matter what day of the week it is he will stay up drinking till 4am in the morning but if i want him to watch o movie till say 1030pm he says he has to work and goes to sleep why? Last night he said when he gets home he had to unload the trailer of wood so he could use it tomorrow and it would take awhile, so i thought i would get out and do it b4 he got home so i could spend some time with him, (it was about 5 metres of wood) and so he came home and stuffed around in his shed. I give up i don't know what i can do anymore. Please Help!!!!

Answer 1

It sounds like you are getting bored

Answer 2

Yes its possible. The secret is to fall in love many times over again and again, always with the same person, your spouse.  

Answer 3

Sounds like its u

Answer 4

yes, it is possible.  but it doesn't just happen like fate or destiny.  love's a choice.  both partners have to choose each other FIRST, over everything else.  

Answer 5

Don't be looking for problems...if he is a good man and treats you well..then don't make a big deal out of nothing, men like to be with men and do men things just as women like to do womanly things..try think of all the possitive things in your life, if you can't thing of anything possitive then you need to take a serious look at you marriage.

Answer 6

I dont know. I always ask myself that one too. Some day hopefully we will know right.