Is it possible for guys to loose attraction of their g/f or wife after shes given birth?

Question

im afraid that my boyfriend will not like me after i give birth. im gaining weight, and (i know not ALL) most guys like skinny/slim women and so why would he find a short fat girl like me attractive? and when im actually giving birth...what if he looks? i know that if it were the other way around and guys gave birth, id be a little freaked out if i saw a head coming out of my boyfriends genitals. im afraid he wont want to have s*x with me after he sees a head coming out of a bloody v****a. sorry to be graphic, but technically thats what it is!. idk....what do you guys think?!

Answer 1

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Answer 2

All women gain weight during pregnancy, you can work on your appearance after the birth if you still feel there is a problem there.

I have 2 children, watched them both come out .  Yes seeing that does change the way a man looks at that part of your body.  It goes from being the s*x organ to being the reproductive organ.  Nonetheless, it is not that big of a deal, nature and testosterone, have a way of helping him get over it.  

The most common problem for attraction after birth is that some women switch from a wife\girlfriend primary role to a mother primary role when a balance between the two is what is needed.   Mothers often dedicate so much of themselves to their baby that the fathers needs aren't being met.  Remember that his needs (and yours too) will not be much different after the baby than they were before the baby.   Yes the baby will have needs, yes you will both be tired all the time, and no there will never be enough time, but you have to show each other that you still love and are attracted to each other as much as ever.  

Answer 3

well, you guys had s*x, so i don't think he should worry about being grossed out, you should want to shot him during labor. never mind him looking , you will have so many weird ppls hands in your v****a that him looking is nothing. your self esteem comments sounds like your not even ready to be a parent, and that your just a kid yourself. maybe you should have thought about this before you had s*x. IF YOUR BOTH MATURE, YOU WOULDN'T THINK OF BRINGING A LIFE INTO THIS WORLD AND WORRY ABOUT HOW YOUR BF THINKS;

Answer 4

I know that some men do go through a phase where they are not as sexually attracted to their partner after birth.  Usually this passes.  If he truly loves he will stay by you.  This is not a time to be harsh on yourself.  This is a time to be kind to yourself.  And incidentally, a lot of men find pregnant women attractive.