Is it possible for someone who's cheated to change?

Question

Like if that person was in a relationship with someone and they cheated... Could they never cheat again? Or is it "once a cheater, always a cheater"?

Answer 1

I believe so

I dunno, its weird. I think once a cheater always a cheater.

Answer 2

It's hard to say, people can change, but only within themselves. But they do need help with their problems of cheating. But I always say "A Tiger never changes his Stripes."

Answer 3

Before we were married,my husband cheated on me twice.Its been 12 years since he did that and hasn't done it since.Now I'm not saying it wont happen again,but for right now I trust him.

Answer 4

cheat is like s*x.. u do it once, u do it for the rest of yur life.. believe me, it cannot be change..

Answer 5

Once a cheater always a cheater. It's the best policy to protect yourself. Ok, would you trust a murder to live with you if they killed a person? Oh, they have been saved, he or she has been healed. pfft please.

JJ

Answer 6

the way i see it, if they confessed to you it might mean they are honestly sorry, but if you found out thats not so good...

but since this was a past relationship you dont know how it really was and shouldnt automatically assume the worst since im pretty sure you wouldnt like it if someone judged you on your past right?

take it slow and easy!

Answer 7

It depends, if someone has cheated on you, then be true to yourself.. Have some dignity and walk away.. If you took them back after it happened once, they might end up doing it again.. But their are exceptions.. If you truly believe this person just made a mistake take them back, but dont be surpised if you find out again..

Answer 8

It's hard to teach an old dog new tricks ;))))

Answer 9

it only depends on the person whos cheating and if that person is willin to stop cheating.

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Answer 10

depends....really...

Answer 11

I've heard that saying, but it's not always the case.  Some people do learn from mistakes and feel remorse enough to not do it again.

Answer 12

i think that they could definitely change. some signs: they still feel guilty and regret what they have done; they try nonstop to make their relationship with the person they cheated on better, they have stopped seeing and speaking to the person they cheated with. it's probably hard to resist if you are a cheater though, so you can never be too sure. sorry if this made no sense. i hope this hasn't happened to you. good night.

Answer 13

Why is it important for you to know about the stages of change? Because having heart disease, a heart attack, heart surgery or a stroke is all about change — for the survivor and for you. You can help encourage the change process if you can recognize the stages your loved one is in for different health habits. This allows you to help your loved one move through the process. And you can see those health habits where you and your loved one might have conflict.

Studies show that people's ability to make a new habit permanent is based on their readiness to change. In fact, people naturally go through several different stages before a new behavior becomes a habit. These include:

    * Precontemplation (Not interested): Not even thinking about changing the old habit.

    * Contemplation (Maybe): Thinking about changing but not doing anything about it.

    * Preparations (Definitely a possibility): Doing something about changing, but not regularly.

    * Action (Doing it): Changing the old habit regularly, but for less than six months.

    * Maintenance (Been there, still doing it): Habit has been changed regularly for six months or longer.

Roadblocks to moving forward

As people encounter different roadblocks, they're likely to slip backward into earlier stages. But they move forward to the next stage as they learn new information and skills to help make the habit stick. Your loved one will likely move through the following stages in attempting to change lifestyle habits. Follow these tips to help remove the roadblocks to change.

In precontemplation:

    * Learn how new healthy habits can help.

    * Talk to people who have made healthy changes.

    * Ask the healthcare providers to explain to your loved one how changing certain behaviors may reduce risk for another heart attack, stroke or heart surgery.

In contemplation:

    * Just try the new habit.

    * Start with something simple and manageable: eat one meatless meal or walk around the block.

    * Don’t expect too much too soon. Take pleasure in the small victories.

In preparation:

    * Set goals.

    * Develop and write down a specific plan for reaching the goals.

    * Recruit friends or family to help.

In action:

    * Make sure the new habit includes plenty of variety so you don't get bored.

    * Anticipate situations that may trigger a relapse.

    * If your loved one does lapse, analyze what led to the lapse and identify solutions he or she can use to cope with the problem in the future.

    * Help your loved one keep a positive mental attitude

Answer 14

usually, the only thing that changes is who they're cheating on and who they're cheating with...

Answer 15

Once again,

another lost soul

making one last desperate attempt

to salvage a cheating union......

SAD :(

Answer 16

a lot of people are gonna say its not.

but it is, ive seen it happen.