Is it possible that a very funny, happy, laid back person became so serious in life???

Question

what would be the possible reasons for this??

low self esteem? environment? what do u think?

Answer 1

At times, for me the negative aspects of your question were the result of some disillusionment and/or an understanding of the fragility of many important things through death or other consequences.

Many things bring back the happy go lucky aspects of life, but they can not make the other issues go away.

Having a child that you love helps immensely.

Answer 2

Yes,it happened to me...

Answer 3

life has a way of smacking you around

good advice here

http://zenhabits.net/2008/02/20-things-i...

Answer 4

Yes, I've seen it happen.

reasons:

- a serious relationship

- graduating college / getting a job

- depression

Answer 5

simply put, it is all up to you, i have scruntinized seritonin levels (feel good chemicals) and come up with a functioning hypothesis.

if you truely "feel" serious in life, then it may be a sign of growing up and realizing what is important in life.

But, what i believe you are experiancing is an alteration of happiness from your stress and anxiety. But the thing is, you have to realize that you are not stressed out ALL the time and that anxiety DEFINITELY doesnt rule your life.

you see continued stress and anxiety from lifes occurances can casue DRASTIC changes in a persons personality.

If you want to make a change then allow YOUR MIND AND YOUR BODY TO DO SO!

every morning, i want you to say "today will be a great day!" do not just say it but MEAN IT! and spread the phrase around to others, like your mother or father, friends or other family.

because when you are happy, and you spread the happiness, your ENTIRE atmosphere will change for a happier, lighter hearted experience.

Basically, be happy! make yourself happy, and get some sun (at least 30 minutes a day) to raise your seritonin levels.

it will make you happy!

Answer 6

A crisis, death of a loved one, PTSD, chronic illness or a long period of stress could result in this.

Answer 7

Yes.

Possibilities could be self-esteem, events in your life that makes you take things too seriously.  A lot, especially in the Bush era.

Answer 8

my friend life can change in any time so can you , it is not possible that thing stay always the same  

Answer 9

well i am 31,and all my life i was one of the happiest people in the world.always joking,outgoing,friendly... due to alot of stress,unhappiness i became very distant from everyone,do not go outand only deal with my family.self esteem is also a big part,you are ashamed of your looks and you feel down.  This is my problem.. i had a therapist who made me start by going to the movies,by myself,cause i do not like being around people.  the movie is dark they can not see me and i still know they are there.i even am at the point if there are to many people at a restaurant,i will not go,and drive around until i find a place that is virtually empty.  so yes to your question,i have changed and not for the better,i sit at home now and talk on here so i have people to communicate with,sad i know,but you guys are greatr friends than the ones i have in real life...at least you can not see me,,that is how i feel