This is a question I'm asking out of curiosity. If the term "bear" refers to a big, burly and hairy man in the homosexual community, than is it possible to be a "straight" (i.e heterosexual) bear? I'm wondering also how one refers to a man as a "bear"; is it self proclaimed, or is it at the consensus of others? I would like some insight, preferably from other "bears", straight or g*y.
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