Is it possible to be just friends with benefits with him?

Question

I have been seeing this guy for few weeks and i they is just any chemistry between us.He always tells me that he really likes me but i don't enjoy doing social things with him since i find him boring.

So i was thinking to tell him that i am not looking for a boyfriend right now but i am willing to be his F*u*c*k buddy.I don't know if he is going to be okay with it but i think its better i let him know from the beginning.

So do you think it would work since he is already obsessed with me?

Answer 1

If he is already obsessed with you, no.  He has already created feelings for you so you are beyond friends with benefits.  Ditch him of you can't stand him.  There is no reason to string him along.

Answer 2

This is a dumb question what man do you know turns down snatch he doesn't have to pay for.

Answer 3

If he really is "obsessed" with you, he's not going to be satisfied being a FWB.  If you have s*x with him, he's going to develop feelings, and when you can't reciprocate those feelings, he's going to be crushed.  I think it would actually be cruel to do this.

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Answer 4

It rarely ever works regardless of the situation. Why? One person may be too illogical and irrational to understand that s*x and love are not the same thing and that s*x does not have to be emotional or personal. Another issue that occurs, in my experience, is that some men, illogically and irrationally, believe that women (or for the retarded, all humans) are not able to have s*x without any emotional attachments or involvement and get offended when you do not care about them personally, regardless of their own feelings.

Of course, if you're just friends with benefits it's got to end some time. I've just never heard of it ending without someone's intellectual or emotional incompetence getting in the way ie. ending with both enjoying the same understanding of the relationship that there was in the beginning that being a mutual use relationship.

If you can keep yourself detached emotionally and remember that you're just using him and make sure to remind him now and then for the sake of honesty, then you'll be fine.

Answer 5

r u kidding? not gonna be ok with it! what guy would not be, he just hit the equivalent of the lottery!

Answer 6

He might be boring in bed too honey. Go for it and find out.

Answer 7

yes you should tell him early or he will accuse you of leading him on cos some people only do it with people they want to be with for a long time.

better safe than sorry.

be nice and take care of his ego.

cheers!

Answer 8

He won't be satisfied with just being a booty call.  He'll end up having deep feelings for you and things will get awkward after awhile.

Answer 9

it'll work for a while but then he might get a bit clingy and want more, way I see it is carry on as you said but when he does start to want more end it.  By then you should have got it out your system and/or want more yourself, either wat its a win win situation (for you anyway)

Answer 10

s*l*u*t

Answer 11

If you are both adults and now married then go for it