Is it possible to be straight(woman), raise a family, then realize you are more attracted to women than men?

Question

I seem to be in this situation, and I don't know what to do. Any suggestions? My husband knows and he's not open to adding a woman to our marriage... and I wouldn't want that either. I'm a one-on-one kind of woman.

Answer 1

my suggestion would be. Not to do anything with any woman as bad as you might want to. Because cheatin is a whole different story.

Answer 2

Yes its called a late in life L*****n, it happens a lot, happens to men as well. I hope Everything works out for you. I dont really know what too say other then that, cuz i dont want to tell you to divorce your husband or anything.  

Answer 3

Yes it is possible, if your feelings are that strong then you should leave your husband and go live your life for you. It is wrong for you to cheat on him. So if your need for a woman is this intense divorcing him is the only answer. Looks like you have some soul searching to do. Good luck!

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Answer 4

Thats a great question...and kudos for trying to figure it out. When I was about 26...there was this woman...married.......very sheltered...but her eyes would not lie to her.  I was helping  a friend dig a hole for a fish pond... she threw off the most intense craving and longing vibe I have ever experienced.  To make a long story short....I knew she was into me...and I went for it.  I knew that there was no way the woman was not a L*****n.  We made it happen and I told her to leave him so that he could move on. She wound up with someone else and to this day is with a woman. I love men...and to lie to them is not right...they have hearts and souls too...and are very easily crushed.  You matter...and if you want a woman it really won't go away.  

Answer 5

It's very possible. There's nothing really you can do about it if you want to stay with your husband.  

Answer 6

you could always.. call me?

We could have a little one-on-one fun ;]

I wouldnt tell anyone!

I'm jk... or am I?

lol Uhm, Id say do what you want. You only live once, if you want to find out what s*x with a woman is like then DO IT! I highly recomend it.

Ignore the husband, do what you want.  

Answer 7

Yeah actually, for women sexuality is very fluid. Women can be str8 and then g*y, g*y and then str8, or just g*y for one night in college (or str8 for one night in college. The prevailing thought on this is that for men sexuality is very focused on immediate attraction, or aesthetics. For women sexuality seems to be very tied to emotional attachment.