Is it possible to become so emotionally strong.....?

Question

Guys won't bother to mess with you or take advantage of you physically?

Since you are extremely weak physically is there an additude or strenghening of emotions to scare away the bad guys? My counselor said it's possible but it sounds too good to be true.

Answer 1

a lot of people were scared of this one emo kid that always carried a knife and would l**k his lips if you looked at him..and no surprise, he turned out to be one of best friends :P.

Anyway, don't change ur attitude to something stupid, and emotionaly strong? yep. I haven't cried once emotionly my entire life, and i've lost some family members, it doesn't mean my life is horrible without emotion, i just mostly have a neutral feeling all the time.

Answer 2

It is true that bad men feed off and are attracted to weakness. This is because evil, unmoral behavior is distinguished by a need to consume.

In otherwords, evil men seek to use, abuse, and consume other people for their own benefit. And the weaker the girl, the easier this is to accomplish.

It's also the reason that a girl who is jaded, constantly on guard, aggressive, and contemptous of men is avoided (by both the good and bad men). She is showing the bad men that she has already been consumed (now worthless). She is showing the good men that her judgement in the past has been faulty (bad gamble).

Good men look for women with strength of character, rational capacity, loyalty, dedication, affection, and patience.

So I guess it comes down to your intentions. Your question seems to indicate that you want to build walls, but no castles.

I hope this is not the case. Build a castle, and a knight will show up. Build walls, and you'll scare away everybody, leaving you alone and isolated.

Remember one other thing; guys don't want to fight girls. This is something most women find fustrating, as the sexes compete for jobs and leadership positions. But men truly have very little interest in competing, fighting, and winning against a girl.

We like to chase girls. So if you've got a bad guy on your trail, the best thing to do is stop running and face him down. He'll quickly retreat in confusion.

But if you've got a good guy....well...keep trucking along. He will catch up to you.

A lot of girls get confrontational (even with good guys) because they're afraid of getting hurt. They think it shows 'emotional strength'. Later on, they lament at all the decent guys they threw away.

Emotial strength for girls is very different than from guys. That's because men and women are different and are required to do different things in society. We're simply made differently.

So do not look to men for emotional strength. All you'll learn is how to act like a guy (yuckie for you). However, you find emotionally confident women to emulate, and you'll have shining beacon that will raise the interests of every good guy around you, while showing the bad guys that you're not weak prey.

Good luck!