Is it possible to find love again after a divorce??

Question

My wife cheated on me, left me out of the blue. Is there hope for me to love again after going through so much emotional turmoil and heartbreak.

Answer 1

sure....just give it some time....

Answer 2

Yes! My first husband cheated on me too. After the divorce I wasn't looking and was in no hurry to become involved in another relationship. I made a friend, nurtured that friendship and we are still best friends. We've been married 15 happy years.

My advice to you is to take care of yourself and don't get desperate. People can sense that a mile away. Do things for yourself and become involved in things that interest you. I believe that the best things happen when you're not lookingfor them.

Answer 3

Yes. But you need to take a break from dating before seeing other women. I just about gave up and I met the man I am with almost 2 years after divorcing my husband.

Best of luck

Answer 4

yes. once the termoil and heartbreak isnt a factor in your day to day life, there is hope. just dont seek it before then : )

Answer 5

I feel your pain. My husband left me out of the blue, so now we are going through a divorce. My heart is breaking, but I learned I have to be strong and keep a postive attitude, and so do you. It hurts like h**l now, but I havent given up on love because I know there is someone out there for me. Its hard, but dont give up. You deserve so much better, and yes one day you will find it. Time heals a lot and good things come to those who wait..my friend. Good luck!

Answer 6

Man that sucks.

Yes you will find it again. Don't let your experience with her affect new relationships.

Women hate baggage.

However, it's  the rough times that help you appreciate the good times.  

Answer 7

of course they do.  

Answer 8

of course you can find love after all that ordeal. You sound like a very interesting person. What your ex wife was wrong people just don't take marriage seriously anymore. You did not deserve that man. You will and deserve love.  

Answer 9

dunno, I'm still looking, I will let you know one of these years.  My husband did the same

Answer 10

Ya lots of people fall in love again and make a better life. For your next marriage don't make quick decesions. try Dating sites. now days you don't have to pay for them. most of the sites are free. I use Kiss U Kiss http://www.kissukiss.com and Plenty Of Fish http://www.plentyoffish.com . they both works greate for me.

Answer 11

of course there is life after a bad breakup/ divorce. If you feel this way i would advise you to speak with a Counselor/ therapist. but yes its going to take a lot of time to get over a bad breakup and be prepared but keep your head up and good luck but what ever you do you want to give it time dont try to rush into another relationship for a rebound take your time and do things for you alot of peoples biggest fears is being alone and thats something you should embrace for the time being and get to know your self again then love will come when you least expect it

Answer 12

of course. did you think you would not fall inlove again. her loss is someone elses gain. be patient. start up new dreams, and goals. you will get over it in time. think of the lessons you learned from her, and apply it to the next one.  

Answer 13

Yes there is. Alot of times it will happen just when you say you will never marry again. That special someone will enter your life and you will eat crow. I know that for a fact and let me tell you something....crow never tasted so good!  

Answer 14

Lots of people do it and end up having a much better second marriage.  

Answer 15

Absolutely! Both my husband and I have former spouses and we both say everyday if we had not had those relationships then we might not have found each other. I am a strong believer that everything happens for a reason and you will someday find the right person. Maybe not on your first try but she is out there. Just stay positive and it will happen most likely when you are not even looking for it.

Answer 16

Time heals a broken heart.  There is life after divorce.  Find an active hobby, run a marathon, do a walk-a-thon.  Join a singles group.  You will find "LOVE".    

Answer 17

Yes it is. My best friend did  

Answer 18

Of course there is.  Think of it this way...there's tons of single women out there at any age.  And you have experience on how to pick up a woman and go through the whole motions of a relationship until marriage happens.  You have invaluable experince where others do not.  So take that experience and use it and learn from it on how to meet the right woman.

Answer 19

Yes!  you can find love after a divorce.  After my first wife cheated on me I found someone that would truly love me.

Answer 20

Yes!  You need to give yourself time to heal. You have been through a lot and need a little adjustment time. But there will be someone that will find you when you least expect it!  She will allow you to trust again. I know how you feel, for I have been through a divorce in the past 2 years. You will have learned so much and have so much experience to bring to a new relationship. Most important is to let yourself be open to new people. Don't close your mind to a certain look or personality traits!

Answer 21

find it? sure.  keep it? dunno

Answer 22

Yes, you just have to pay when your done with it.  

Answer 23

You can find someone new, I did, and they turned out to be 31 great years before he passed away. communication is the key to a good relationship, and knowing when your mate is having a bad day.  

Answer 24

Yes, there is hope.  Take the time to heal and recover from what you've been through before you do anything.  Get involved in hobbies or volunteer work that interests you.  This will make it more likely that you'll meet someone who you have something in common with.  You can't go into it expecting love, but you can't rule it out either.  You'll be expanding your social network in the process and this will give you more options for things to do.  Friends you meet and get to know well may also help to introduce you to new people.  Just don't get too wrapped up in believing that you must have someone.  Let it happen naturally and you'll find the right person when you least expect it.

Answer 25

it happens...........  i'm living proof.  similar thing happened to me.

Answer 26

Oh, Honey I did!

I was 9 years into a separation and waiting for the divorce to be finalized........in my early fifties too, a full time working Mom with 4 adult kids at that point...totally resigned to being a single all my life...when there he was! I 'knew ' him as an on line pen pal under a nickname...after two years of Im-ing and 6 months of talking over the phone we agreed to meet face to face. We 'clicked', just like we had always known each other...

Exactly one year and one day to the day we met face to face (10 years after my ex walked out on the kids and I), we married. two years now and still happy as can be...and my kids think he's great too.

So buck up! All is not lost...happily ever is out there for you..don;t rush it, don;t force it, don;t even look for it, it WILL find you when you are ready for it and when it does you'll just KNOW it's right.......

...and if it helps, my hubby was alone after his ex walked out on him -to find herself, so she said, for 30 years...he said he just wouldn;t settle for just anyone...he knew 'she' was out there....and I was worht the wait...good luck.

Answer 27

Yes it is, give yourself some time and know yourself. Forgive and move on slowly. Do not rush into any thing soon, you will do just fine.  You will find Love again.

Answer 28

yes, you will find love again.  a better one.  just hang in there.  give it time.  time does wonders.  have faith.