Is it possible to force yourself to fall out of love?

Question

I'm in love with a good friend of mine. She knows I like her alot, but not that I love her... we even dated a few months before she had to move. She's the one for me, but when I express my feelings towards her she doesn't comment one way or the other. When she left it was that she wished she had time for me but doesnt after moving. My feelings are getting stronger and stronger. how do I fall out of love since even though I think she's the one for me... my situation feels helpless?

Answer 1

hey dude i feel the same way about a girl. i think about her constantly and it kinda gets frustrating but i believe that its better to feel and experience love  than not to. you know people live their whole lives and never get to experience it. i said hi to the girl i like and those two seconds mean more to my life than anything. so dude just enjoy the ride.

Answer 2

Its going to be hard at first and take time but you need to try and pass this phase. You have to slowly put her out your life. (Ex. Try and find something to do whenever you start thinking about her are you want to talk to her) Its really going to be hard but you will manage. You and can also find something to pass your time so you dont have to think about her like going out with your friends and family. As time pass it will get easy. Then as soon as you start dating again your mind really not going to be on her! So good luck!  

Answer 3

You start seeing other girls, do other things, get a life, and start thinking about other things.  Love is a choice.  And no, she's not "the one" for you if the feelings aren't reciprocated.  

You'll fall in love several times before finding the one you are to marry.