Is it possible to go back being friends after getting physical?

Question

I was friends with a married man. At first I just saw him as someone to just chat with and ask for advice. He is44 and I am 23.I saw him as father figure since my own father doesn't even bother with me. I got attached to him and I felt like he was my own father. We have been friends for over 2 years. We became closer and I started to fall for him. So one day when were talking, I ended up going down on him and he also sucked b***s. He hasn't called me ever since that day and I have been a mess. It’s been 2 weeks and I am still crying over him. It’s really difficult because I was so close to him. He meant more than just someone to chat with. I am so sad and find myself struggling without hearing his voice or seeing him.

So i was thinking to go back to visit him and letting him know that i felt guilty on what happened and i want resume our friendship

Answer 1

He is a married man and I think that you should just leave him alone. You can say that you just want to resume your friendship but, it will end up being more than that. So the best thing for you to do is let him go.

The reason he probably never called you back was because he's scared of getting caught and he feels like he made a mistake. If your friends it will make it hard for him. I think you should just let him go.

Answer 2

Shouldn't have happened in the first place. If you really do like him stay away or it will just happen again. You, and him, will ruin a marriage, if you haven't already. Find yourself a 20 yr old.  

Answer 3

you should cut off all ties with him.  yall really cross the line when yall got physical. stay away. and remember he is a married man you don't want to be a home wrecker  

Answer 4

Stay away, he's feeling guilty for cheating on his wife probably, put yourself in her shoes, how would you feel?  

Answer 5

you should marry him at once.

Answer 6

stay away from him its not right  

Answer 7

you acted like a s**t and he was too weak to refuse and is now staying away

leave the man alone so he can be with his wife

Answer 8

You still need the father figure but you have crossed the line...once crossed you can't go back. He's avoiding you and that might be best now...You are probably the dream of most men his age and he's sober enough to take a cold shower...Take Care