Is it possible to go from being a **** buddy to just friends?

Question

I met a girl recently (I too am female) and a spark hit off and we ended up falling into a passionate s*x affair - we ended up hurting each other in several ways and the last time we saw each other in person was a full on argument and it felt like a really bad ending. A couple of days later she wrote telling her feelings and that she thought we should end it because it was getting "too intense" and said she just wanted to be friends - and she wants a boyfriend... I accepted this but realised later that too many feelings have been established on my end so I have tried to just cut her out of my life completely and just not ever see her again but she keeps on calling me to meet (I believe platonically) though I don't think thats possible for me yet if ever - should I just ccut her out of my life for good and avoid her and never meet her again?

Answer 1

you want to step back

it is difficult

you can discontinue

but not step back

Answer 2

I understand your feeling, the problem you had in the past was that she was just having s*x and you were making love with passion.  If you enjoy her company and love the time you spend together, then invite her to lunch and lay some ground work.  I know it is hard to step back, but if you truly do have feelings for her, you need to give her space and time to make the same decision.  While she is traveling down this road she will lean on you for some support, be patient and you may come out a winner and find a life mate all in the same process.  Good luck.

Answer 3

Yes it is possible.

I think ye just need a little bit of space, don't cut somebody out of your life if you still care about them.

But don't get the wrong Idea and think ye will get back togeather.