Is it possible to have a great s*x life with a guy that you have no chemistry with?

Question

I was seeing this guy for 2 weeks and I broke it off because there wasn't any chemistry and I didn't feel any spark with him. He refused to take no for an answer and he kept begging for a second chance.

So decided to give him another chance but I still find him to be boring and clingy.

In addition, I suggested to just friends with benefits with him. He agreed and we had s*x for the first time. We tried the fore play and I wasn’t even turned on. He also kept loosing his reaction and we had to give up on it.

So I was thinking to just break it off with him for good.

So should I stick around to see if the s*x gets better?

Answer 1

Why waste your time?  If the sparks not there, then its not there.  Tell the guy no for good.  He has to realize now since even he couldn't keep an erection!

Answer 2

no chemistry is one thing but bad in bed too .

id get rid of him but that's just me.

Answer 3

If you have no chemistry now and didn't get excited the last time you tried, why would you drag it out?

Bad s*x is the WORST.

Run, don't walk, from this relationship.

Answer 4

NO do not stick around.  And stop being a booty call for any guy.  This is not wise.

NO there is no use sticking around or wasting any time with this guy.

Answer 5

I think that your playing with a dud.  Break it off, if theres no flame, then its obvious that you don't light each others wick,  Ha Ha , no seriously if there's no attraction there.  Then why try to involve s*x. You Boothe will loose in the long run.  

Answer 6

Nope. Sorry, it's not going to work. I'd move on.  

Answer 7

Don't waste your time. There doesn't seem to be any justification to staying with him. If he was interesting and there was chemistry but the s*x was just bad, that would be a reason to stick it out. But there doesn't seem to be anything good to stick around for.  

Answer 8

Chemistry is another word for sexual attraction...it gets the 'juices' flowing I mean just thinking about being with your guy should do that.......if it aint there it just aint there, so do yourself and him a kindness, even tho he may disagree on this, and break it off...if it don't work, it don't work...okay?

Answer 9

Try another guy!