Is it possible to love a girl when...?

Question

U have never dated her. Me adn this girl are the best of friends. and we work together. I have had a crush on her all summer. We are both 19. In early july i told her i had feelings for her, when i told her she was still with her old bf. she told me then that she liked me last yr(b4 her and her bf got together) and would have dated me and stuff if i would have done something. Since then her and her bf have broken up and she is now seeing a new guy. It is killing me that she and this other guy are dating.. and i feel like we are ment to be together, she is leaving for school in less than a week... what can i do to show her how i feel should i tell her that i feel this way about her? and is it possible to be in love with a girl who u have never dated.

Answer 1

Kid....you're miserable failure at communicating to a member of the opposite s*x is a textbook example of the youth of today.

Rejection is a part of life. Plain and simple. However it appears you're too scared to even make a move and toss out something that would make this babe show an interest in you OR show her you have an interest in her.

So...while you're fantasizing about her when you're alone...and at night.....she'll be getting the real deal from Johnny Rottencrotch all because of your dropping the ball and not following through.

Tough breaks kid. To the victor goes the spoils.

Answer 2

it is possible.  just ask her out. exchange numbers and be nice to her.

if she doesn't respnd, there is nothing you can do.

Answer 3

its alright to date a girl who you've never dated....even though she is dating

another guy...you should wait....and if she is leaving soon...

you should just get over it....if you never did went out with her

don't say that both of u were meant to be together...because if both of you

went out and truly loves each other thats what you call meant to be together....having feelings for someone is hard to let go and get over

but feelings don't last forever....feelings will change when you see someone better than that person....one day you will find the one who was really meant to be yours....don't feel sad....sad is nothing...

sad is what people hate the most....happy is what makes people have fun.....smile to her and be like a friend to her...

Answer 4

It is possible to feel that way yes, but you have to do something about it when the feelings come to you. I know what you are saying but personally what I did in the past is fight for her head on even if she is seeing someone. I know, i know, it is bad to do but according to me when you like/love someone and want to be with her, you do everything you can do to get her. So, you can do what you want with what I said but I know she told you that you should have done something about it before but did she show any signals or mixed? She probably did. Go out there and show her that you are the right choice.