Is it possible to love anyone(kid's ,husband,wife,friend ,whoever)100% totally unconditionally?

Question

Is it possible to love anyone(kid's ,husband,wife,friend ,whoever)100% totally unconditionally?

Answer 1

Yes, although I think it mainly applies to blood family. I think alot of parents love their children unconditionally and vice versa. Because family are the ones who are always there for you (I'm speaking generally, not for those families who disown each other). I have a best friend that I believe I love unconditionally. We have had falling outs and she has done things that I haven't agreed with, but I think a part of me will always love her like a sister. I have family members I don't always get along with, but at the end of the day will always love and feel the need to protect. But with husbands and friends I feel like it is less uncondition. You can be head over heels in love with someone and then break up or get divorced and a couple years later forget they were ever a part of your life.  

Answer 2

nowadays it seems impossible

however there was a time when you loved your blood ties unconditionally

your kids, mother, father, sister, brother

but the husband/boyfriend/lover/a date is never unconditional because they are not your blood and therefore there is always conditions attached to it, i mean hello

Answer 3

We had this question posed in Psychology last semester. I was one of the few people that argued "no". It's easy to say yes when your limits haven't been tested by said person, but there's a point where 'unconditional love' is really nothing more then blind stupidity.  

Answer 4

i don't think any human could

personally, i don't believe in god, but i admit the possibility

if there is a god, then that god would probably be the only being that could love somebody unconditionally

as for humans, if somebody did something ridiculous such as rape or murder, i think that would stop us from loving them

Answer 5

Just kids. They did not ask to be here so they are our responsibility and of course no matter what they do we love them. Even if my son killed someone I would know it was bad judgment or a mistake. I would still love him.  I could never leave him.

Adults you cannot trust 100% because they are subject to make mistakes so I could not commit to love unconditionally 100% because let's say one killed my child, well then I would not love them anymore, so I stick with unconditional love for my child only.

If someone murdered someone else I must say it might effect my ability to love them (except for my own child).

Answer 6

well my sister has had a child and she says that she does not love him unconditionally because if he grew up to be a murderer or a child rapist or something, she wouldn't be able to forgive him.

Answer 7

Of course! :)

Just like cwood said, it mainly happens to family but in rare occassions I believe that it is not always the case. You have to find it yourself and experience it

I have a supervisor who takes care of me and looks after me. I adored him so much that I just kept doing whatever I can for him at work and eventually he knew how much I loved him. He always asked me how I was doing in a sincere way and I was happy :). But one thing though, I think that this only happened because I have never had a dad before. I guess I was always looking for a father figure in my whole life and he was the one, I act like a kid around him.

But ya, I think that's one of the reason why most people believe that it doesn't exist? I mean seriously though, if I had good parents, a good mom and a father, I think I would've never looked up to my supervisor in the first place. I would've never felt the need to search for that father figure, I think that's why some people dont really understand. My supervisor is the coolest :)

But anyways, that's just my two cents

Answer 8

no

Answer 9

only JESUS can!